Miscellaneous: Today, one of my closest friends informed me that she wasn't...

By Anonymous - 23/05/2013 13:45 - Australia - Brisbane

Today, one of my closest friends informed me that she wasn't going to invite me to her wedding, because I'm too shy and not enough fun, and she doesn't want her 200 or so guests to feel uncomfortable. I was the one who set the happy couple up. FML

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By no cake for me - 07/11/2012 07:31 - United States - Jackson Heights

Today, my best friend told me that I wasn't invited to her wedding, saying that I was too pretty and that I would outshine her at the ceremony. I laughed and said that she was being ridiculous. She eventually confessed the real reason why I wasn't invited: apparently I'm an annoying bitch. FML

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By Anonymous - 14/04/2021 23:03

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By Anonymous - 15/06/2013 21:58 - Australia - Richmond

Today, my future sister-in-law cancelled my invitation to her and my brother's wedding. Her reason was that I was incredibly rude to announce my pregnancy to my family at a time like this, because it took all the attention away from her. FML

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By Cellist - 14/12/2022 15:00

Today, it's the wedding of a two friends that I introduced each other to about a year ago. I'll be enjoying it on my couch. I wasn't invited. FML

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By anonymous - 17/09/2013 17:52 - United States

Today, I was uninvited to a bachelorette party. I wouldn't really care, if the party hadn't been for me, ahead of my wedding tomorrow. FML

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Thursday 23 May 2013 19:02

I know it hurts, but I wouldn't go even if she change her mind. She obviously doesn't consider you as close a friend, as you do her.

Likian5 26

Thursday 23 May 2013 19:03

This ungrateful friend doesn't deserve to have you at the wedding.

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chuckcloninger 12

Thursday 23 May 2013 21:14

Not a friend at all as I'm sure you see now. But perhaps some good can come from this? Are you "painfully shy" and find it difficult to be around people? Perhaps you could talk to some of your true friends and if they also feel that way you could take some steps through therapy to reduce your shyness and become more engaging to people? Good luck.

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unixdude 9

Thursday 23 May 2013 21:16

I see your definition of "closest friend" needs a revision.

calucalay 13

Thursday 23 May 2013 21:26

if this was me id probably drop my be the better person idea and post it all over facebook. link the FML even and then we'd see how shy you are:P

DoubleSoul 11

Thursday 23 May 2013 21:34

Wow, that just blows. It sounds really ungrateful and selfish. Since you set them up it would be a special thing to have you at her wedding, but to not invite you is just wrong.