What were you thinking?

By Anonymous - 08/08/2023 10:00

Today, assuming he'd be okay with it, I brought my two kids with me on a first date, as I didn't want to pay for child care. My date made me pay for the kids' meals and my own, then blocked my number afterwards. FML
I agree, your life sucks 106
You deserved it 3 210

Same thing different taste

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You didn't want to pay for child care, but wanted your date, on a first date, to pay for everyone's meal - without even checking with them first? Nuh-uh. They usually say that assuming makes an ass out of you and hey, it really did this time. 110% YDI.

What happens when you ASSUME? You make an ASS out of U and ME (and your kids.) On what planet would bringing kids on a first date be okay? Yours kids shouldn't know anything about the guys you date until you've gotten to know them well enough.

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You didn't want to pay for child care, but wanted your date, on a first date, to pay for everyone's meal - without even checking with them first? Nuh-uh. They usually say that assuming makes an ass out of you and hey, it really did this time. 110% YDI.

Girl. GIRL. You really brought your children to a *romantic date* and saw nothing wrong with this? Really?

joseph_rod_05 14

was it cheaper than the child care?

What happens when you ASSUME? You make an ASS out of U and ME (and your kids.) On what planet would bringing kids on a first date be okay? Yours kids shouldn't know anything about the guys you date until you've gotten to know them well enough.

Seriously 😐 you sound entitled and clueless,like WTF were you thinking? duhhhh !!!

honey, you are either some kind of extreme stupid airhead, or you are so entitled and think that you are allll that. what, you're THAT hot so he would be awed by you and overlook your massive faux pas? if you keep doing this, your kids are gonna think their mama's a ho. get your head together girl.

Wow. Bringing your kids on a first date, and expecting your date to pay for everyone, without asking them first. That’s some hardcore entitlement. He 100% did the right thing, and dodged a bullet.

I have no tolerance for entitled parents. Absolutely YDI. I feel sorry for your kids.

rpy13 11

Who in the hell would assume that, good grief

LeighLee 2

I would have not gone as far as he did