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Why can't you bring your mom to the beach? It's not like beach-goers carry harpoons with them.
Don't go on the trip and divorce the manchild. You should be his top priority, not his mother. He will always put her first before his family.
I am pretty sure there is a bigger problem here than the trip to beach without MIL. If I read it correctly OP’s husband is a “Mama’s boy” who puts his Mom’s wishes first and she is used to that prerogative… I would suggest that no one should marry a “Mama’s boy” unless you don’t mind always coming second to MIL. And I have trouble imagining being desperate enough to do that… Unfortunately, OP you made that choice and you have children - that makes correcting the situation very, very difficult. Not impossible, but very difficult and it won’t happen overnight.
Don’t let him be mad at you. Tell him you’re the one who is rightfully mad because he doesn’t care for you at all.
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Don't go on the trip and divorce the manchild. You should be his top priority, not his mother. He will always put her first before his family.
I am pretty sure there is a bigger problem here than the trip to beach without MIL. If I read it correctly OP’s husband is a “Mama’s boy” who puts his Mom’s wishes first and she is used to that prerogative… I would suggest that no one should marry a “Mama’s boy” unless you don’t mind always coming second to MIL. And I have trouble imagining being desperate enough to do that… Unfortunately, OP you made that choice and you have children - that makes correcting the situation very, very difficult. Not impossible, but very difficult and it won’t happen overnight.