If you want a proposal so bad, why didn't you propose to him, as opposed to just forcing him to propose to you? You would've gotten an honest answer (hopefully), since in the end, you're the one who was the more active part in wanting marriage. If you'd proposed to him, he might've said yes or no, and depending on the answer, you'd have known where he stands.

And FYI, a lot of women DO propose to men, which goes against convention, I know, but still is as valid as a proposal by a man.

I feel this is my of an FML for the husband, he is stuck with a whiney bitch never wanted to marry, you must have been good at nagging

Haha, are you the same wife that some dude came to FML complaining about marrying because she threatened to kill herself? That would be hilarious if you were. If not, YDI still for pestering a man to marry you. Maybe you needed to raise your standards a little, find someone who WANTED to ask you himself, and then you wouldnt have this problem.

WHAT A ****.

Well ? Why did he propose when he did not want to ? I guess he had to see how important step marrying someone is.

You absolutely deserve it, 'cause that's what you did. Your responsibility.

yuu' mustve been annooooooyin' ;P

If you don't realize how this is your fault, then your life really is ******.

what a complete loser. all you people saying "oh well it's your fault" yeah it's totally her fault that she gagged him and put a gun to his head about proposing to her. Like the guy had NO choice in the matter what so ever. besides, do any of us know what his idea of "pestering" is? any guy that doesn't have the balls to make his own decision about whether or not he himself wants to propose to a woman isn't a man at all. yeah, he was "pestered" into spending the rest of his life with her...god...he probably would have married his mother if she "pestered" him...