gender says woman don't think she is gay but YDI for waiting 8 years....

you can go to hell yourself, Asshole

wow! so erm.... women who love men are gay now? that's new... are you so idiotic and judgemental you assume that OP is a man, even though it clearly states (woman)

grow some **** and he will like you

60: You repeated the same 'argument' about three times.

# 60 Are you seriously that ignorant and stupid? People like you are the reason that there are hate crimes and why gay people are sometimes afraid for their lives. And seriously comparing gay people to Hitler ( who I am pretty sure was straight) Hitler was responsible for mass genocide, last time I checked there wasn't a mass genocide of that level committed by a gay person. You are a homophobe and you are just wasting air that other people who are worthy of it need to breathe. I honestly think that ou are a sad waste of a human being!!!! (oh and the op is a female!!!) oh and just to get on your nerves I am watching the musical rent.

Heyy!! thats uncalled for!

Yeah it really could have been worse! My former "close friend" said she couldn't be friends with me anymore and has refused to have anything to do with me since. It was really, really awful. All I wanted was to tell her, I didn't expect anything to come of it. At least he's still your friend and you have had the chance to express your feelings. Good luck in future. Hope you find someone else.

I think it's understandably hopeful for the OP to think after 8 years he might love her back. "suddenly?" it's not like she sprung this on him after a month long friendship

A month long friendship would be better actually..... atleast then she wouldn't have spent 8 years of her life loving a dude but never telling him in hopes that one day her passive actions would make him fall in love with her.

Stfu troll.

FEEED MEEEE AND I GROWW BIGGERRR!!!

*tosses a cookie to troll*

om nom nom thank you

*sticks wand up troll's nose*

eew yuck, troll bogies.

hehe that tickles, do it again

i want to train the troll. troll, sit! stay and i will give you a cookie cake. :)

* sits down and tilts head to the side* cookie now? please

as cookie flies through the air, I snatch it from the troll and huddle in the corner nibbling on it. my daddy starves me

I would say the friend's response is not hinting at further interest. Hopefully he comes out and tells her exactly how he feels so there isn't future miscommunication between them... especially if he really wants to continue being friends...