I felt pressured to send my boyfriend pics for the first time. He brought it up many times over a few months. When I finally felt okay sending him anything and asked for something back, he said "oh I'm not fully comfortable sending them now" and "you took your time getting comfy with sending them so I'm gonna too" like wtf? I got so pissed over that. You can't push someone to send pics if you won't even send any back!

#76 damn. That's ******* ridiculous. If anyone is uncomfortable sending nudes of themselves then they shouldn't expect them from anybody else!

Knowing how uncomfortable she was though, joke or not he needs to go. It's not funny or okay. My best friend once had a similar situation where her boyfriend pressured her for tit pictures. She gave in and in response he sent a nice perky pair of **** back and told her that was what they should look like. Sending pictures like that makes you vulnerable. **** that guy.

I'm just saying that I wouldn't dump him in the spot, and that's better talk to him first, though she would still be entirely right in dumping him. About your friend, I'm so sorry for her. What a major asshole.

I see what you did there...

This is as effective as telling a paraplegic person to just get up and go for a walk.

It's as effective as 18's spelling...

Too many things wrong with this post -.-

Hmm... I thought it was *one. Win doesn't make sense.

What the ****? It's not her fault. You can send your significant other nudes. It's not her fault the boyfriend is a prick. And it also wouldn't be her fault if they got leaked. Guess who's fault it would be? The person that leaked them.

I mean if it's her bf and he hasn't even seen her **** yet then the best way to show him probably wasn't by sending tit pics.

Although it wouldn't be OP's fault if the pictures got leaked, it could be very embarrassing for her. Noone's saying it's her fault, but "don't send nude pics" does sound like good advice to me. I assume OP hasn't been seeing this guy for a long time, so that's all the more reason to be very cautious with these things. I hope it's at least a pic of her boobs only, not one where her face can be recognized.

They might be in a LDR so it's the only way to show him. The fact is she refused at first but her boyfriend wouldn't let up. It can be hard to keep saying no, especially to your significant other

Why does she have to show him? Everyone needs to learn how to say no sometimes. If he's dying to see her boobs he can come see her.

What the ****? Who said it would be her fault? You're too hung up on that - all I said was she could save herself grief by just never sending them. Of course you CAN send pics to your SO. Doesn't mean you SHOULD. For one thing the NSA probably saves them all, LOL.

i think OP is upset cause he pressured her into sending it and then made fun of her.

No, that was pretty obviously intentional. She had just explained to him that she was self-conscious of them, and even if his visceral reaction was a startled one, he chose to text her his disgust/disbelief. He does not respect her, that "joke" was more than insensitive and not remotely funny, and at the very least she needs to have a serious conversation with him. My boyfriend makes a lot of jokes about my body and his, but it took us a long while to get to that point. Think of it like this: if you make a rude comment over everything your girlfriend is/does, your relationship won't last more than a week because you're a prick.

When you tease someone about their body, you have to be close and you DEFINITELY don't do it about something you know they are self conscious of. Not to mention he badgered her into sending the picture in the first place.

She should have known better? Are you serious? He manipulated her into trusting him and revealing herself before she was comfortable and you're blaming her... He is scum. He should never have been able to see another breast after he stopped sucking his mothers, pathetic excuse for a human.