By mdwillow - 12/10/2014 07:46 - United States - Kenai
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OP here! Just to clarify, I was very understanding of his stress. We both actually suffer from anxiety so it was a hard day in general. This was going to be his first night moved out from his parents though and change is always hard. Once we woke up the next morning I showed him we got published and we were both excited! haha no hard feelings on either side:) The honeymoon has been great. It's so nice to get away from everyone:) Thank you for all the kind wishes! We are both so excited to be married to each other as best friends.
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Talk to him to understand how he feels! Communication is important. I hope everything gets better for the both of you! =)
I'd check you'd married a man...
I'd check if you are a man. You sound like a dick.
You act like this is the only time it's okay for a man to show his bawls .
he was happy!!
Doesn't matter, got married :)
I am a bit confused as to why people are pressing the 'You deserved it' button. How did she deserve it. She married the man she loved it just went a bit wrong that's all! And congratulations on your marriage OP :)
Maybe because she was posting on FML about how her new husband "ruined" her party instead of being understanding and compassionate towards him. I understand being sad you missed the big party after your wedding, but it says a lot about who you are and your relationship if your response to your spouse being stressed and upset is "FML"... Really? Your life sucks because the love of your life is upset and stressed? Maybe she didn't know how this would look to the rest of the world, but I feel bad for her husband that she was upset about the party and not about how he was doing.
45, weddings are ridiculously expensive. I've had a couple family members spend the equivalent of a brand-new luxury car on the rentals and arrangements for that one day alone! If OP contributed financially, I could absolutely see why she'd be upset, and if her parents paid for it as tradition dictates, she probably isn't going to hear the end of it for years to come. I know love is supposed to be more important than money and all that, but that's a ton of money she and her new husband effectively pissed away.
The reception is supposed to be the fun and easy part. The planning, wedding, and stress should all be over when the party starts. He should of hung in there, had a couple beers to relax, and gave it a chance.
I can understand him. School can be stressful too, but I would believe that planning/going through a wedding would be greatly harder. I hope that all else went well, and I wish you a happy marriage.
He's crying because he now has a beautiful wife!
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I cried when my girlfriend said "I love you", so I'd imagine I'd probably cry at my wedding too. It's not okay to cancel the whole thing though.
Maybe it'll get better when the honeymoon comes around ;) Congratulations by the way!