the best thing you can do is to move on and accept what is accept that she or he doesn't feel the same way. because you can't start the next chapter of your life if you keep re reading the last one. and trust me I know it hurts to let go buy sometimes it hurts more to hold on. and yes its gonna be painful in the process but look at it this way Getting over a painful experience is much like crossing the monkey bars, you have to let go at some point in order to move forward. just remember that love can take time and when the right moment comes you will find that he or she to sweep up off their feet. hang in there and I hope for the best for you.

Hate to break it to you, but if she's marrying someone else she's most likely *not* the love of your life. Don't hold on to people who aren't there.

Maybe this is from a guy who just doesn't really expect much from the world but, that's life.

Yes, that's when you hook up with the other one's best friend if possible. Good luck, op!

I know that feel, it gets better in time though. Good luck sweety

Same think happened to me. I was in the wedding as a groomsman. They divorced 10 years later. I got together with her, finally. She turned out to be a raving psychotic bitch. Go figure.

Cheer up buttercup, you may very well have unknowingly dodged a bullet there!

You'll find someone that is meant for you soon enough. keep your head up ?

Man I'm so sorry for you :,( there a plenty of fish in the sea