By Lady_Gunslinger9 - 11/08/2015 21:38 - United Kingdom - Durham

Today, I told my boyfriend I was scared to open up to him because I had lost people in the past by doing so. After an hour of him trying to convince me to share my thoughts with him, I finally agreed to tell him some things that were worrying me. He broke up with me a minute later. FML
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Lady_Gunslinger9 tells us more.

Hey guys I'm the OP, just thought I'd make an account and give you all some extra information. I have an anxiety disorder and depression, he knew about both of these and he could tell I wasn't feeling okay so he asked me what was wrong, I tried to convince him it was nothing because I don't feel comfortable opening up to people because of things that have happened in my past. When he eventually convinced me I wasn't going to lose him if I opened up, I took a risk. I told him some things that were worrying me and no it's nothing crazy or weird (although the murder comments did cheer me up a little). The conversation led to talking about our relationship and that's when he ended it. I'm better off without him because anyone who cant deal with me telling them small things that everyone goes through certainly couldn't handle something big if it ever happened. I am sad it ended but I know its probably for the best

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What the hell are you telling these people??!!

People like that are why I have trust issues!

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I seriously want to know what you're telling people, because if it's the same thing and it's made them all leave just from hearing whatever you said, that makes me think it's something pretty bad.

You poor thing, Im sorry you had a boyfriend who pushed you to tell them whats wrong and then leave right after. You definetly deserve better OP

Literally the same thing happened between me and my girlfriend, she said "don't bottle up your emotions, just trust me". Let me tell you....I shouldn't of trusted her

Bottling up still isn't good though. She just obviously wasn't the right person.

I'm sorry to hear that, OP, but you can't just tell people you are a spy.

NEWS FLASH: NOBODY IS PERFECT!!!! What is wrong with the people you date!!! You should NEVER dump someone because they had a hard past, or even if they did drugs in the past or fell over the edge, if you're better now, why dump someone for that?!?!?! These people your dating got problems and don't deserve you. One day you'll find someone who accepts you and your past!

I figure that your significant other will find out eventually what your secret is. Better to cut 'em loose now rather than with a mortgage in both your names and three kids.

Don't sweat it OP you'll find someone way better than that prick. Sorry you had to have it happen to you though.

teddybear208 9

people like that don't deserve your time