By mymumdidntloveme - 01/07/2014 03:59 - New Zealand - Auckland

Today, I told my husband that I didn't feel like he loved me. He looked away and replied, "Fair enough". FML
I agree, your life sucks 46 045
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mymumdidntloveme tells us more.

Hey, OP here. We are still together. Have attended counselling and we are both being much more open and loving with each other. The issue was both his and mine but we are both working on our problems together and I'm proud to say our marriage is better and more fun than ever :)

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Fair enough? What's fair about a husband not loving a wife? I'm sick and ******* tired of hearing so many stories of infidelity, marriages falling apart, etc. What the hell happened to humanity? No one seems to care enough about anyone these days, especially people who swear to love someone until they die. It saddens me and angers me and makes me want to throw my desk out the ******* window. Clearly I need decaf.

91hayek 31

He can't help the way you feel. All he can do is try to show you. Still, he could have at least asked why if he really cared.

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Maybe he doesn't. I lived in a loveless marriage for many years because I felt my kid needed two parents living in the house. If you do it right, no one will ever know. Even my wife and kid had no idea.

tehdarkness 21

Sounds like it's time or counseling or a commitment from both of you to communicate fairly and try to if things!

Maybe you could be a shitty wife. Don't get me wrong but think about it. If you read the FML it doesn't tell me that you're amazing does it? Okay now bring me the dislikes.

Yep, that about suns it up. Time to rethink your marital situation and make changes or change the husband and get a new one. Good luck.

We need a 140 character limit on here too...I'm just sayin! These comments are not meant to be a psychological diagnosis...a simple comment would suffice, Dr. Phil.

Uhm... edmunson... those were 164 characters you wrote there. You couldn't fit your comment in the 140 characters you wanted even by not writing "saying" as it should be. Bummer.

Maybe you could explain to him why you feel that way instead of using such a vague statement. Saying that probably just made it sound to him like you weren't trying to start a conversation but were just venting

fancyrf0709 4

You should think/say dumb things. Stupid question/comment gets a stupid response.