By Anonymous - 28/12/2012 15:14 - Canada - Montreal

Today, I woke up with an engagement ring on my left hand. The same one I refused last month. My boyfriend apparently waited for me to be drunk to propose again last night, and has already posted the pics on Facebook. FML
I agree, your life sucks 43 531
You deserved it 16 024

Same thing different taste

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saIty 17

Talk about an overly obsessed boyfriend. Time to move to Yemen and raise goats.

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YDI tbh. You're leading him on and he's serious about this relationship. If you don't want to marry him, you should have broken up with him the first time you said no.

YDI for still being with him even though you don't want to be married to him.

OP, why don't you just let him know what he did was wrong and call it off? It would be a lot easier than actually marrying him. Facebook doesn't make anything official.

Steve95401 49

Posting a status on Facebook doesn't make anything official, but word spreads fast and it's difficult to counteract.

My question is if you don't want to marry him then there's really no point in being with him. If you can't see a future with him then why even call him a boyfriend? Go find someone you want to be with and marry and stop dragging him along.

Maybe she wants to... eventually? We don't know how long they've been dating, maybe she's just not ready to take that step.

You right, I was just looking at it from another point.

No I did not mean that. I only meant if its been like 5/6 years or more and the both of y'all is making plans. That's all I was saying

BubbleGrunge 18

Then what do you want From your relationship, OP? I do believe that people can spend the rest of their lives together without being married, but it's really not fair for you to string him along when you both have differences in how you live out your relationship? If you're not ready to get married yet, then perhaps you need to sit him down and explain your reasoning and offer a compromise of some sort! If you don't feel like he's the one, then you need to break it off with him; that's only fair to you and him!

Holy crap some people can't take no for an answer

Twisted_Angel 17

if you don't love him enough to marry him, then you should probably have ended it. I wonder if he knows that's why you declined his first proposal. I can't say I feel sorry for you, because I don't. somewhere there was a miscommunication between the two of you.

#116 - Just because she declined to marry him doesn't mean she doesn't love him. Some people simply don't agree with marriage; that doesn't make them incapable of love. Fact is we don't have enough information to really understand WHY she refused, only that she did.

You know the boyfriend may have also been drunk and proposed again just like a drunk dial or text... If you were both drinking YDI to an extent because its not anyone's fault really ... If he was sober and being manipulative then run now or forever hold your peace