there should be more guys like you, 148!

He's just going "for the hell of it"? Is that a legitimate reason to do anything? I mean, obviously, even if you refuse to accept it, there must be a subconscious reason one goes to a strip club. Frankly, I don't think anyone who needs to go to strip club to be entertained while being in a relationship is worth any girl's time. He really must not have much in common with his friends if he needs to bond over a mutual attraction to pussy. I'm not going to get started on how demoralizing strip clubs are to women, as that argument's been overplayed, but I still acknowledge its basis.

No actually most of them are girls (like myself) who are confident in themselves and their relationships and actually have a loving honest and trusting relationship and have no issues where their hubby's go because they know they will come home to their wives/girlfriends.....:)

Ummm...nope! I happen to have a lot of self respect & trust my husband completely! I know who he's coming home to. Instead of me being controlling, he tells me the truth about what he's been up to & gives me the same freedom. Makes our relationship even stronger because of the trust. As we get older, we're less & less interested in going to any club. That honesty & trust is what has enabled us to remain happily married after 12 yrs!

He'll yeah!! Strip clubs are fun just like regular clubs. It's a change of scenery and the girls go out of their way to make other girls feel comfortable. So take your nose out of the air for a second and quit thinking that just because you and your man have that agreement, that it is the only way to make a relationship work. You are close minded as VERY wrong. I love my husband to DEATH. but I have to problem watching him get a lapdance. I am secure with how I look and his love for me that seeing another girl on him makes me happily jealous. Seeing a hot girl hit on your man makes you proud he is yours!! :) I love it so don't judge!!

Oh I'm secure with how I look too. I think the strip clubs are for single guys though. If your husband was so happy and in love with you I don't think he'd need to go watch a half naked woman dancing. Imagine how awkward it must be for the dancer to be dancing for your loser husbands knowing he's in a relationship.

My 'loser' husband makes 500,000 a year so watch your tone. And it's MY decision to go to the strip club my husband has no problem staying home. :) it's fun for us to go hangout with other sexy people. And when I see another sexy woman I do not get jealous, that is being secure. And most of those dancers are in relationships too. Just because they may have had kids early and need help doesn't make them any less of a person. You are just ridiculous.

There are so many other jobs out there not involving taking your clothes off for money. I don't have any respect for girls like that. Imagine if it was your daughter. I trust my husband and know he'd never mess around on me. I'm not a jealous person at all.

267 - Jesus Christ way to make it seem like your marriage is based on money. And on another note why the **** should anyone "watch their tone" cause your husband may or may not make a certain amount of money? You are just ridiculous.

Its so rude and condescending for you to assume any woman who has different morals than you doesn't have self respect. Any woman telling an adult man what he is and is not allowed to do is controlling and needs to work on her self. You can set standards for what you will accept and leave if a man doesn't want to follow them but you cannot determine the behavior of a grown man. A lot of strippers (ones who work at the better clubs for example) enjoy their jobs, they like the attention and the money so they are not disregarding themselves. Not everyone thinks the naked human form is shameful or to be covered. I respect myself to know that I am the apple of my s/o eye, he loves me on an intellectual and spiritual level but I can still recognize that he is a human being and visually stimulated by naked women other than myself.