By hannah - 14/04/2013 15:21 - United Kingdom

Today, my boyfriend of 17 months, the first guy to tell me he loves me, the guy I lost my virginity to, the only guy whose parents I've met, told me we should stop 'hooking up' because it's weird that I was telling everyone we were a couple and it was ruining his chances of finding a girlfriend. FML
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hi, i'm the girl who wrote this originally (i've since got an account so changed my name- maybe some people won't believe that but whatever) and i just want to say in response to some people that it was VERY clear on both sides that we were a couple, we were not friends with privileges.. also i am not a stalker, i just wanted to specify exactly how long we'd been together because it emphasises just how shitty what he did was.. like someone else said, a year doesn't really explain that fully. maybe he was using me for sex and i was practise, but i'm not as young or naive as some people here seem to think... this isn't my first relationship, but it was my first really serious one hence meeting parents, having sex etc etc.. i thought what i felt towards him was mutual, and i think if many of you had known us as a couple you would be very surprised about what has happened, most people were always commenting on how much he seemed to adore me. right now i have no idea what his motivations were, but everytime i speak to him i want to stab him.. so im refraining from speaking to him or seeking an explanation at the minute SO thanks to everyone who's been supportive, **** knows what his problem is but im getting over it seeing as he's been such a dick to me, and i just posted him this link, so any extra abuse toward him would be welcome.. ha

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lnm701 0

What an asshole. You're better off without him. Good luck on that girlfriend search, buddy.

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GuardGirl126 9

What a jerk! I'd kick his ass in a heartbeat!

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madaoxsan 9

not to state the obvious...but we don't now if they were really a couple, or if the OP wasn't just jumping to conclusions about the status of their "relationship" because of said hooking up. Lots of guys, and yes, even you gals know how this happens (you refer to these men/boys as "creepers")...one person says "lets see where it goes", "I'm not so sure I wanna.." and the other assumes something without the consent of the other. Either because they really like them, have selective hearing, are desperate, or INSANE. but I'm sure since this is a girl, she's obviously been done wrong. Sorry for the cynicism... I'd like to be able to automatically share your ire, but I just have experience in this sort of thing, its annoying. And just because you have something dangling between your legs, you're automatically the "douche bag" when you've been as honest as you could without saying something blatantly cruel. BUT, if she really was, I feel for you OP. P.s. for all those reading there is a difference between a "nice guy", and a guy who is honest and cares about your feelings. "Nice Guys" are mythical creatures, or fakers. The latter is just a man who is truthful and assertive. Then there are "players"...who are just liars, period.

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madaoxsan 9

I also forgot the "Moral guy"--the one who does everything "by the book" and goes the straight and narrow. if you like this type, stick with them. "hooking up" is not for everyone, and if you want a relationship with one person I venture to say that 8 times out of 10 hooking up doesn't lead to one (its rare). Especially after months of it happening.

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DeafWolverine 8

im so sick of seeing douchebags do this kind of thing and blinds girls from the good guys

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mo_092 4

at the end of the day he did you a favour: you can get on and find someone better who really appreciates you rather than wasting any more of your time on some dickwad.

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joecartoon2 2

Or you know you could just be one of thoes crazy girls that made it up in their head that they were together when you were just a booty call. He could just say he loves you to get some ass you know theres always that.

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shark_gurl 0

I'm really sorry that happened to you. Same thing happened to me last summer and I'm still trying to get over it.

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Scarlettx7 0

Something like that happened to me , hard to forget but you'll move on

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yatxiri 0

That's so sad.. But **** that! You don't need his shit.

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