By forever alone - 09/05/2015 23:03 - Germany - Apolda

Today, my boyfriend told me that we wouldn't move in together as we had planned to do for a long time. His mother forbade it. He is 27. FML
I agree, your life sucks 30 165
You deserved it 3 062

Same thing different taste

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iAmPaul 49

If he's still tethered like that to his mother at 27, he doesn't sound ready for a committed relationship.

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MzZombicidal 36

It seems is FML is full of momma's boys. Honestly though, I'd sit him down and have a very serious talk with him. That is if you truly care and I'm assuming you do since you were going to live together. He needs to grow up and make his OWN decision, like, 8 years ago. Good luck, OP!

Where did you first meet him, the Bates Motel?

I thought of Norman Bates too! Hey, OP, if you ever see your boyfriend wearing a dress and a wig, run, girl!

Maybe when you do get to move in together, his mom will give you his balls back as a house warming present?

you don't want to end up with a spineless man

If he's not willing to move in with you, maybe you could discuss where he sees the relationship going in the next few years. If he's commitment oriented, this relationship may be salvageable. If he doesn't plan on marrying you, then it's time to move on.

tchopper1969 16

don't know what you said but I'll give you a thumbs up

#27 He said "Es leben hoch die Muttersöhnchen!" Just kidding, Benmantha's basically saying that the guy is just a mama's boy.

She. I'm female. But other than that, you're basically right, #48. It means pretty much "Yey to all the Mama's boys!".

You've gotta persuade him of you know what I mean??

leogachi 15

It's pretty disturbing if you think you need to use sex to lure a man away from his mother.

coffeelicious 11

Bonus points if OP's actual name was Bernadette.

Maybe it's a sign to move on before things got too serious

leogachi 15

I'm thinking since they had planned on moving in together for a long time, it's already pretty serious.

you should probably talk to him OP, it's a bad idea to not communicate in a realationship.