By Betrayed - 31/07/2009 09:35 - United States

Today, my family took me to a wig store saying I wouldn't feel so insecure about being bald because of my chemo treatments. When I told them I accepted myself and didn't want a wig, they came out and told me THEY couldn't accept it. My own family is embarrassed of me over something I can't control. FML
I agree, your life sucks 102 233
You deserved it 4 017

Same thing different taste

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Two things: First:congrats for your strenght and courage, half the healing process is a mental one, when you know you're gonna make it, you WILL make it! Keep fighting and it will be allright. Second, maybe what is embarrassing your family isn't your illness but the sheer fact that you're ill and that they can't to anything to help you. It's not something they can themselves battle against and it may hurt them a lot to see you without hair, a constant reminder that even if they are your family they can't protect you from everything.. I don't know how to say it in english but : Je t'envoie plein de bonnes ondes, courage!

Janelle561 0

She has cancer, and all you can comment is you just got owned by your family? Heartless much

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I can't even imagine the strength you must have to deal with everything. I shaved my head once in solidarity with a good friend who had cancer; my family gave me flak over it until it was fully regrown.

My mom always told me when someone has cancer not to sad but pray and hope God has the best for them, and good things always come. :) I hope ur ok now

cameronman9 2

2001 people are gonna get cancer

lexxiii 17

Stay strong, I believe in you that you can make it through!

xheathaax 3

Why does everyone keep saying get a wig to help the family cope. Yeah it sucks they have to deal with it. But it's her choice not theirs. If she is finally capable to be comfortable with it, it means she probably had came to terms with everything she went through. Which meant she has every right to do what she feels is best for her. Shes a fighter and just went through all this, she can do what makes her comfortable. And who are you guys to sit here and bitch cause she posted an "fml" and didn't "think" go through what she went through and see how you would feel if your family did that. She probably knows they aren't really embarrassed but when you o through something like that you are emotional as hell, and probably take things I heart. Keep up the fight girl. I wish you the best with everything.

No way you cud deserve it get better!;)

Who the hell said she deserved this? Not cool. And good for you for being proud of who you are. That's a quality so many people wish they had

your parents are overprotective, rude, bossy people! They try to force you to wear a wig and say they can't accept you without one on your head? Your parents have something messed up in their heads. And congrats for your courage to refuse to be told what to do. They can't force you to wear a wig if you say you don't need one. Let this be known to all parents: you can't force your kids to do something they're not okay with!!!