By witchybaby89 - 26/05/2015 02:50 - United States

Today, one of my regulars came up to my car in the parking lot. We talked through the window while I put on my makeup. He then asked for a hug because he won't be in for two weeks. I obliged and he was kind enough to slide his hand between my legs. He then gave me $50 not to tell his wife. FML
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witchybaby89 tells us more.

To answer a lot of questions, I'm a truck stop waitress not a prostitute or stripper. He's a truck driver who has been a faithful customer for two years and has been handsy before but never to this extent. I took the money to my manager and they're looking over video of the parking lot and my restaurant.

Top comments

I thought she meant one of her regulars as in she's a prostitute

Perv... Tell his wife... And the cops.

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oyevey45 12

I'm a hair dresser so I immediately assumed it was one of her regular clients, because that's what we call them, and we all have crazy stories along those lines.

How considerate of him. He gave you $50 to cover the phone bill to his wife!

Merylwen 24

The sexual assault is the problem.

sahmnc420 13

Sorry been there sometimes customers can overstep the comfort zone. I was always very friendly with mine n it would bite me n the ass, learn how to separate a little more, otherwise u will get a really crazy down the road!

Take the money and tell his wife..and the cops

You visited my profile xD just saying this is to #49 completely irrelevant to this follow thread

rldostie 19

Why do so many people care what her job is? No one has the right to touch you without your consent, no matter what your occupation is. Even a prostitute has a right to her own body and no one should be touching her without her say so (even though I don't think OP is a prostitute but likely a bartender, waitress, hairdresser, or some other such job that puts her in contact with his wife).

Merylwen 24

Clearly she's a waitress or a bartender, hence why she could easily tell his wife.

I can't the comments I'm seeing giving the OP "the benefit of the doubt" regarding her possible job title. Lots of baristas, bar tenders, and waitresses have regulars. If this woman was a stripper, they often have no-touch policies to protect themselves. If she was a prostitute, she still has the right to only grant her services to clients and activities she explicitly consents to. Sex work automatically heightens the risk of being sexually assaulted, raped, beaten, and even killed- and any person who can justify assaulting a sex worker to themselves will be easily capable of justifying assaulting anyone of any job title. Assaults on sex workers usually go unreported due to their job titles; which encourages rape culture to thrive because "she shouldn't have been: doing that, wearing that, walking there, etc." A job title doesn't matter when assault is assault. It is not "free money", it is not an excuse if the patron was drunk (most people can drink without assaulting anyone), and the OP should feel both safe and encouraged to report this to the police. Assault can happen to anyone, and to attempt to place conditions on that can easily translate to "well you're a guy, guys can't be raped!" or "well, your sister was pretty drunk so I thought she was game" in the future. Take a moment to think about that, then get back to enjoying what should be the fun of FML.