Don't let yourself to be threatened with divorce, surprise her with the papers yourself.

please please as one man to another divorce her and move on, that is a sinking ship. move on and focus on yourself and build a bond with your son. this isn't something to come back from

YDI for chosing to stay there. YDI for not understanding you deserve to be love and respected. YDI for letting other intimidate you. Chose life, chose happiness, chose yourself. And move on

silly man happiness is for women children and dogs we don’t get unconditional love

Then leave and divorce her. Continue to be there for your son. Hopefully, he'll realize what's going on and respect you again.

There is only one person who can change this, and that's you. Take charge of the situation and create the life that you want.

We are here for you. Maybe a divorce is what you need.

All of the comments are suggesting divorce. Before going that route at least consider trying couples counseling.