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By Heal my butt smh - 24/09/2023 18:02 - United States - Fort Lauderdale

Today, I’ve been waiting for the girl I love to break up with her boyfriend so I could ask her out. It finally happened; however she said she wanted time to heal before she started getting involved with guys again. I respected that decision. There’s just one problem. I saw her in town, hand in hand with another man. FML
I agree, your life sucks 342
You deserved it 991

Same thing different taste

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OP - It’s time realize that your crush is not interested in you in that way. There’s either “chemistry” in a relationship or not. Unfortunately, “nice people” tend to let you down easy instead of just telling you that aren’t interested… Don’t waste anymore time pursuing someone who isn’t interested. That’s time wasted that could be used in meeting someone who might actually be interested in you… Romantic relationships are difficult. And they don’t work unless both want it. Not everyone you like is going to be interested in you (or vice versa). That’s why it takes a lot of interactions until you find a compatible person. On the other hand there is no such thing as “the one” there are simply people who are more or less compatible.

First off, she doesn't owe you anything. Second, maybe boy toy is a fling and you wanted long term. If she said she's not in a good headspace then believe her & leave her alone.

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OP - It’s time realize that your crush is not interested in you in that way. There’s either “chemistry” in a relationship or not. Unfortunately, “nice people” tend to let you down easy instead of just telling you that aren’t interested… Don’t waste anymore time pursuing someone who isn’t interested. That’s time wasted that could be used in meeting someone who might actually be interested in you… Romantic relationships are difficult. And they don’t work unless both want it. Not everyone you like is going to be interested in you (or vice versa). That’s why it takes a lot of interactions until you find a compatible person. On the other hand there is no such thing as “the one” there are simply people who are more or less compatible.

dongdong xiang 10

Naw op you dodged a bullet there. That hoe is for the streets if she’s able to move on so fast. Do you really want someone like that? Screw that. You deserve better. Keep ya head up.

He was probably a healer and that was part of his process. Once she is healed, I have no doubt she'll be jumping your bones any day now.

You really want a girlfriend who you know will dump her bf for a new one? That's just asking for a broken heart. Find someone worth your time.

First off, she doesn't owe you anything. Second, maybe boy toy is a fling and you wanted long term. If she said she's not in a good headspace then believe her & leave her alone.

She isn't interested in you. Suck it up and move on. Pining will get you nowhere except alone and miserable. Move on OP.

cpguru24 16

Shes not into you. She was trying to be nice to you. You have no say over what she does or who she spends her time with. Get over yourself.