The OFFICE

So I see that my previous comment disappeared and so did my reply to someone's reply to it. I don't know if it's a glitch in the app or what but I'm posting again. "Looking at my previous comment, I realize I could have phrased it much better than I did, and I apologize if anyone is confused. I understand some people will feel strongly about my opinion and that's fine. That's what opinions are. But I really believe that women (just for example) cannot complain about the way they are treated by men (for example) if they don't even stick together. Say if a man cheated on his wife with a younger woman, and he told the younger woman he was going to leave his wife but never did. Who is to blame, truly? The man who cheated or the woman who tempted him? I say the man is to blame, because he had the choice to walk away from the temptation. Understand? Yet more often than not, it seems that the "other" woman is blamed and demonized. I know the fml had nothing to do with feminism (it just made me think of it) but it annoys me that there are still people out there who bring others down and yet so many claim to share a common cause. The way that another person presents themselves has nothing to do with how you should feel about yourself. No one has the right to attempt to slander another person in an attempt to make themselves feel better. You cannot demand respect until you learn to respect others, no matter your own opinions on them."

Maybe you could ask him to subtly drop into a conversation that he's engaged to someone that isn't you?

So out of curiosity, is it that the guy has a fiance, or a fiancee?

Well if he's gay, then he wouldn't want either of you. (Notice fiance in post.)

Why blame the fiancé when she probably doesn't know them, you're right there and so much more convenient? Jeez, next you'll think she should be a rational adult. Or maybe she should not act like a petulant child. Is that what you think? What's the world coming to? Obvious sarcasm, I hope the rumor mill quiets down and you aren't being bothered by her problems any more.

She should blame his fiancé? What gender are they!?!?

There's only one mature thing to do in a situation like this, steal the bitch's stapler!

Tips on how not to be a tramp make sure the guy is single before making any moves