Honest mistake

By Luke - 19/03/2013 09:59 - United States - Liverpool

Today, my department found out that we're getting a new supervisor for the third time this month. I joked about how we're like "the foster kid nobody wants." One of my coworkers burst into tears and ran off. I later found out that she had been a foster child and never once had a stable home. FML
I agree, your life sucks 38 518
You deserved it 30 135

Same thing different taste

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Perhaps it's because her ENTIRE childhood was terrible because she had no parents, no home, no one to give her love and support... You think maybe that's why?

Well, both FYL and YDI. You had no way of knowing that, but shouldn't say things like that around people you don't know well.

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It's not like you'd have known that OP. it's a sensitive issue for your coworker. try to lend her a shoulder to lean on :)

It's a toss up between YDI and FYL . YDI though, for the reasons that there are something's you just don't say in public, joking it not

@Killmoose you've such ignorance and hate in your comment it makes me sick. I've been in and out of Foster care because I lived with my grandpa until he passed when I was 8 and then got adopted by a family who turns out didn't like me and sent me back. This happened a couple more times till finally some family liked me and kept me. You've no idea what kind of traumatizing experience it's to go through this so I think you owe everyone an apology.

ardencred 7

Insensitive jerk! How could you? She probably had a crush on you and dreamt of marrying you and have babies! Well, no more!!!!

Panda_Shy_Haven 17

And thats why I'm introverted

You're not the only one in an unfortunate situation. It does not warrant overly dramatic public outbursts.

I don't think you're to blame, because she's overly sensitive, but you might want to do the nice thing and apologize. It'll smooth things over.

Oh Lord, here's another person who thinks that the woman should "just get over it". Honestly, your apathy is disgusting. She had a traumatic childhood! Of course she's going to react to things that remind her of it!That doesn't make her "over sensitive".

Not remotely your fault. There's no way you could've known that.

it's not your fault, i mean, what are the odds?