ydi for going to his wedding, that's just asking for it

shit happens OP. You can't control who you love and when you start loving them, sorry it was thrown in your face.

Sorry but you deserve it! Why on earth would you attend a wedding of your ex?

wow this isn't complete bullshit, you went to his wedding while you were dating him? cool story bro

Actually, if you are dating someone and end up falling for someone else, regardless of whether or not a physical relationship was going on, is called becoming emotionally attached. It IS cheating. It is cheating when one married person becomes involved with another person (other than the spouse, of course), so why wouldn't it apply if a couple is only dating? He did cheat, and you are better off. Sorry you set yourself up for disappointment when you went to his wedding and heard how happy he was. But hopefully, you learned your lesson and won't do it again. Wishing someone is still pining for you is just pitiful.

Why the hell did you even go? It was their wedding, and I'm assuming you knew they met while you were still dating him (since you didn't say that you didn't know), so what did you expect? And #178: Yes, technically it is cheating. It is not necessarily INTENTIONAL cheating, however, because you really can't help falling in love with somebody. So I wouldn't start going all "oh that cheating bastard" because it isn't as if he did it on purpose.

why were you at his wedding?

uuummm why would you even be at your ex's wedding???

My question to the OP is why did she even attend the wedding in the first place? Way to have no self-respect.

why were you at your ex's wedding to begin with?