ydi for not speaking up and telling them they can't just kick you of of the room like that

Look bitch deal with it...and if you don't like it, get yourself a boyfriend and do the same.

No one can walk all over you without your permission. Stop giving them permission. Tell them flat it that it's YOUR room too, and you have a right to it. If they want privacy, they can find a motel. And yes, I would involve the school if need be. Someone is paying a whole lot of money for you to be there. If you can't get your own studing done for their hot times, and/or you don't get your own relax time (which you are entitled to) it will start affecting your grades. Considering the amount of distractions she's permitting herself your room mate will probably end up w/ a career at McDonalds. If she's lucky.

YDI for not having a backbone to tell them get ******...wait..

I had the same problem. I got a new roommate.

Since you say "room," I'm going to presume this is a college roommate (unless you're in a very small, unfortunate one-room apartment). Talk to your RA. If your college has a half-decent guest/visitor policy, then her boyfriend will have no right to be there every weekend, and kick you out. But I would go with the path of least resistance. Talk to your RA/Residence Life Office about changing rooms. If there's one available and it is that simple, just do it. It isn't worth going through the grief of coming to an arrangement with your roommate: my guess is she and her boyfriend won't want to budge, and even bringing it up will lead to an epic battle of passive aggressiveness and making your life miserable. If it's not possible (due to space reasons), then have a mediation and come to an agreement about the visits. You should NOT have to put up with an additional roommate in the form of a boyfriend every weekend. Every other weekend, perhaps (still not ideal, but more reasonable), but every weekend is ridiculous.

YDI for being a fat hater. Get a boyfriend and I bet you'd talk in baby talk as well with him.

It's called sex... not "stuff". Definitely going to be an interesting roommate if you're too much of a prude to say sex... and that's coming from someone who is a prude!

You're paying for that room just the same as she is, and dorm rooms are not cheap. Figure out how much you pay per day/night for the room, and tell her that you want your money's worth and you won't leave unless you are reimbursed that amount from her. Most college students are low enough on money that this will shut them up. Good luck!

Same thing happened to me. But not only are they all over each other.. when they're not.. they fight. I received advise to wear a lacy bra and panties and dance around when he is around. If you prefer not to do it **like I did because my boyfriend wouldn't be too happy with it** Tell her that it makes you uncomfortable and if she doesn't change her ways then she doesn't respect you and you have every right to move out or if you're living in a dorm and you have rules about it, you can tell the R.A.