Baby you played yourself. If someone asks you out then they pay. Or dutch at the most. Delete that douche from every fantasy you've ever had. The fact he said that to your face with a laugh means he doesn't respect or care about you, probably both.

If a guy isn't paying for your first date there is a problem. Been with my girl for 6 months. Just started letting her by things.

This is what happens when women ask guys out who they know nothing about, and they only ask because they're hot..... I'm not justifying the guy's behavior, but I would bet money at what I just said is the case here. I will say this, we don't know anything about how she asked him out. There are many situations where a guy would be right to assume something is not a date. If she's his co-worker, then I'd almost say he's right to not assume it's a date. The guy was probably an asshole...but NOT because he let her pay if she offered. I love how women fight for equal rights...then demand the man pays for things.

Doesn't seem like both of you were on the same page. You should have worked that out before hand. He might've had no reason to think it was a date and you didn't make it clear.

Why the **** would you pay for it all and seriously - why the **** would you have a first date at a place that would cost so damn much?

Anyone who expects a free meal like that isn't worth your time, OP. You're better off without him.

it's not really a date if there is no sex

Funny how a lot if guys today let the woman pay for the date. Even if it's not a date he should have payed the bill. Sorry OP. Maybe next time

thats cruel

m sure he will have to pay for this attitude for females in future..