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By you’re still a bad mom! - 14/02/2022 00:01
Shoulda been more specific and told her you wanted her to meet your baby AND be your personal maid for the day. YDI
Your sister is a dick.
On one hand, what your sister said was kind of bitchy. But on the other hand, it was also completely true.
Your sister isn't wrong. She could have handled it with a bit more tact but she's definitely not wrong.
I can only assume people pressing YDI have not been postpartum themselves. This is not the time to play hostess to guests. If someone wants to see the baby they should help out a little, e.g. bring some food and do their own dishes. It takes a village to raise kids. Telling your own sister you won't help after she has asked - baby or no baby - why bother keeping contact with them if you don't really care about them?
I bet the sister didn't even change the baby's diaper, rocked him/her to sleep, or gave him/her a bath.
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On one hand, what your sister said was kind of bitchy. But on the other hand, it was also completely true.
I can only assume people pressing YDI have not been postpartum themselves. This is not the time to play hostess to guests. If someone wants to see the baby they should help out a little, e.g. bring some food and do their own dishes. It takes a village to raise kids. Telling your own sister you won't help after she has asked - baby or no baby - why bother keeping contact with them if you don't really care about them?