Poor planning on your part does not necessitate an emergency on mine

By Anonymous - 16/02/2024 04:00 - United States - Eagle Mountain

Today, I told my family that I’m pregnant. My sister is upset and refuses to accept she’ll have to help with the baby. I’m a single mom going to college and living at home, and will need help. FML
I agree, your life sucks 106
You deserved it 2 197

Same thing different taste

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Sounds like your problem and not your sister's problem.

Someone sounds like the spoiled, entitled child. This is not your parents child. This is not your sister's child. This is your child. This is your choice. I say that because it sounds like you chose to have sex. We're you raped I'd have a different view here. However, you chose to get laid and you chose to keep this child. None of the others did. It is not their responsibility. It's a big word for you, apparently, but you have to be a big girl and make a lot of big person decisions now. Those include how you (not your parents or siblings) will care for your child.

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Sounds like your problem and not your sister's problem.

Why is this your sister's problem? What about the father?

Marry the father, he'll take care of you and the baby while you go on with your life and ignore the consequences of your own actions. No? Then how is this in any way your sister's or other family member's responsibility? You won't be able to go to college for a while. You'll probably have to work more. You'll have to get support from the father, but it won't be enough to let you live your life on Plan A as though you won't have a child to raise. Face it now: grow up, fast. You're Mom now, not a college kid.

sounds like you need an abortion not to bully your family into helping with your big mistake

Someone sounds like the spoiled, entitled child. This is not your parents child. This is not your sister's child. This is your child. This is your choice. I say that because it sounds like you chose to have sex. We're you raped I'd have a different view here. However, you chose to get laid and you chose to keep this child. None of the others did. It is not their responsibility. It's a big word for you, apparently, but you have to be a big girl and make a lot of big person decisions now. Those include how you (not your parents or siblings) will care for your child.

yeah, it's not OK to impose on your sister like that. Your decisions, your actions, your responsibility. Not hers. I'd be pissed too, and refuse to help. Are you seeing any irony in your title for this post?

She’s the aunt, not the mom; she doesn’t have to do shit.

49_Donuts 13

It was your decision to get pregnant, your sister has no part in this. Also, I hope you’re going to get child support from the father.

Sue the dad for child support and stop acting entitled with your family. If you can't raise this baby alone, consider an open adoption.

Let's hear it for the single mums who didn't have any help, didn't live at home, still went to school and still managed to make something of themselves.