Swoon

By anonymous - 14/03/2010 05:04 - Canada

Today, my boyfriend said he wanted to marry me. Since he doesn't know my ring size, he asked for me to find a ring that I liked, and he would buy it and propose. The only problem is that he won't spend more than 200 dollars on it. Oh, the generosity. FML
I agree, your life sucks 15 987
You deserved it 37 023

Same thing different taste

Top comments

dudeitsdanny 9

It's about the love, not the ring.

$200 is way more than you should spend on a ring anyway. YDI for valuing the ring over the love!

Comments

**** your boyfriends life for having a girlfriend who insists on expensive things. Does he have any idea how selfish you are?

Thought he can't afford a better ring?

why are people going on about how you only wear the engagement ring until the ceremony and then you only wear the wedding band.. i've NEVER seen ANYONE do that.... people where i'm from wear the engagement ring alone until the ceremony, where the wedding band is placed on the same finger... then the girl wears BOTH all the time (unless they can't cause of work or take it off to clean/shower/paint/ect...) so.... to the people who are saying they only wear the engagement ring during the engagement.....where are you from?? is that a cultural thing?? I've just never heard of that and I'm curious as to who does that......

boatkicker 4

It's a bride choice thing really. Most of the women I know where their engagement rings with their wedding band, but I know a few who don't ever wear it. I also know one or two who wear their engagement rings only on special occasions, or depending on their mood at any given moment. I will probably continue to wear mine after my wedding.

I've never really seen anyone wear both the engagement ring and marriage band, except on special occaisions. So I think Boatkicker is right - it's just preference of the wearer.

deaditegirl 0

If he can afford well more than that and refuses to put in any effort, you might want to reconsider, as he doesn't sound like the sort to put much effort into the rest of the relationship. If he can only afford that much at all, not only do you need to stop whining but you're clearly too young and/or financially irresponsible to be getting married. Either way, YDI.

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so are you spending more than that on jewelery for him? and if he won't spend more than $200, either he's saving his money for your marriage (you know, the thing that comes after a wedding?) or he just can't afford it. either way you should be happy that someone has just said they want to spend the rest of their life with you, not thinking 'FML i want a better ring.'

Tonys_kitten6 0

all you gold diggers thinking about the ******* $! that is rediculous he loves her but apparently $ is better than his love??? wtf!? get over it you don't even diserve him! if my boyfriend said he wanted to marry me i wouldn't give a damn about the ring! its the ******* LOVE ugh, you people discuss me! get the **** over it!

Well we can say she's a gold digger but keep in mind it's considered "proper" for a guy to spend around 2-3 months worth of his makings on an engagement ring. So by all accounts, she's marrying a 5 year old sweatshop shoe maker.

well... you, my dear, are a bitch. if you loved him you wouldn't care about the price (even though in my mind, $200 is alot. Maybe that's just me?)

Why do you care? The engagement ring is lesa than 200 dollars who cares? You will also get a wedding ring you selfish person