By Dnamei - 22/03/2016 14:17 - Belgium
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OP here, made an account so I can answer some questions. My sister is 26, I'm 22. We got along pretty good, untill I met and married my husband and started a family. She lives with my parents, and is in a very bad relationship. When I met my husband, my sis tried to get me grounded (!) and tried to convince my parents not to let me see him. She also tried to blackmail me into not seeing him. She was against the marriage, and cried and screamed when she learned I was pregnant, saying I don't deserve what she doesn't have, claiming it won't be special when she has a baby because she wasn't the first to give my parents grandchildren (my parents don't think that way, they'll love every grandchild). My son is a very sweet and charming little guy, he sleeps through the night, is always happy, eats everything, rarely gets sick, crawls,... He's a very easy baby to care for, and everyone loves him and he loves everyone. The plan I found was in a notebook, while helping my parents clean out the attic. It included my husbands workschedule, and the days my son goes to daycare. Also what my son eats and his medical reccord. Her country of choice is Australia. A few days before this discovery, she asked me if she could take my boy to the zoo, alone. I refuses because he had a slight fever, and I'm very happy I did. My son has a kids-ID, my sister isn't allowed to be alone with him anymore, and I alerted the daycare to NEVER let her take him home. When I confronted her, she said it was just a joke, she was just 'messing with her little sister'. The notebook was hidden in a pile of schoolnotes, if we didn't clean the attic, we'd never know. Sorry for the long text, and sorry for my english. Ps: My dad was close to the airport when the bomb went of, but he didn't get hurt. My family and friends are scared and shaken, but safe. We mourn for the victims
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My mother in law had a plan very similar with my new born son. I never let anyone look after my children while they are little thankfully. her plan was to "take him to the park" then take him to cumbria very nearly caused a divorce
I would say alert the police but they're most likely very busy in Belgium right now, rest assured that Europe, and the world, stands with Belgium
Holy cow, your sister is crazy! I would definitely take this seriously. A joke wouldn't be written in full detail in a notebook. Also, I am glad your dad wasn't injured. It is just so awful that these things keep happening.
TomeDr
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I hope you and your parent can convince her to seek mental help. Hoping to tear your sister's child from her is insane.
Time to break out the old detailed plan to abduct her and take her to the people who make torture **** on the deep web.
Gosh your sister sounds just as jealous and stupid as my sister in law, she also tried to break up my husband and I when we first started dating and has never been happy that we got married/brought a house/had a baby before her, some people need to grow the **** up.
My mother had a similar plan to abduct my son. She had a kidnapper set up, and an accident ready to take me out. My family responded with "you're just trying to make her look bad. Don't lie about her. You're lucky to have a woman who puts up with you and all your evil." That's when I learned the extent of how badly she had poisoned my family against me. She is a psychopath, narcissist, and manipulator. As a result, I've lost all contact with my biological family for the past decade. Good luck with your situation. Keep your son safe.
Weirddate
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Just curious Did you ever find out what she said about you? Have they ever tried to reach out to you during the silence? Has anyone ever been interested in hearing your side? I hope you called the police. In any case, I'm so sorry to hear this happened to you. I can't imagine why or even how anyone can do that. I mean not just the abduction but hurting you her daughter in the process! FYL
Weirddate
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It won't let me delete!
scottishoatmeal
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I accidentally click YDI - I didn't mean to.. As you definitely don't deserve this! Good luck with keeping your self and your boy safe.
Nothing personal, but your sister is a psychopath. You need to get her some psychological help.
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Wow. You're in an awful position. Get your son a passport though (KEEP IT SAFE)! They use biometric scanning for all passports and that way, if your sister attempts her plan, you can put a block on the passport and it'll automatically detect anything else your sons fingerprints are associated with (if her plan includes getting a fraudulent passport for him).
A broke ass criminal. Sounds like your sister would be a great mother in South Carolina...