Love: Today, I found out I wasn't cool enough to be invited to a college...

By Anonymoose - 08/09/2015 19:12 - United States - West Long Branch

Today, I found out I wasn't cool enough to be invited to a college party that happened last night. The one in charge of inviting people was my girlfriend of two years. FML

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By Dead_Eye - 27/09/2009 05:23 - United States

Today, I turned down an invite to a huge private party that is rarely given to freshmen in college, because I felt bad that I hadn't had a chance to talk to my girlfriend in a couple of days. I called her a couple of hours later. She answered with, "Hey, I'm at a party. I will call you tomorrow?" FML

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By reginaphalange - 27/05/2010 14:06 - Australia

Today, I found out that my best friend was having a birthday party and I wasn't invited. I had just finished planning a surprise party for her. FML

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By BirthdayBoy - 28/03/2015 03:42 - United States - Madison

Today, I was uninvited from my own birthday party. FML

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By wetandpantsless - 04/10/2009 04:15 - United States

Today, I got invited to a big upperclassmen party that underclassmen don't normally get invited to. I was feeling really good when I got there and saw that the girl I'm in love with was there. They stole my pants and gave me a swirly. Her reaction was to post pictures on Facebook. FML

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Happy birthday, I suppose…

By chessgeeksam - 14/03/2009 19:28 - United States

Today, I learned that the surprise party thrown for my girlfriend's 19th birthday was wonderful and she couldn't be happier. Except that I didn't show up. Apparently 40 people were invited but I wasn't one of them. We've been going out for three years. FML

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By my_only_friend - 03/06/2013 04:45 - United States - Chicago

Today, I was invited to a party. Since I rarely get invited to any, I was super pumped. Both my parents work late, so I texted a couple of people to see if I could catch a ride. It turned out everyone's cars were full. I ended up missing one of the only parties I've ever been invited to. FML

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By Anonymous - 30/04/2009 14:51 - United States

Today, I found out my best friend had 3 birthday parties for herself over the weekend. I wasn't invited to any of them. When I asked her why, she said I "didn't fit in" to any of the groups that were at the parties. All my other friends were invited. FML

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By loser - 19/06/2011 08:44 - United States

Today, I got officially uninvited to a party. This is the third one this month. FML

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By person123abc - 09/12/2010 05:35 - United States

Today, I sat in my room on the computer instead of attending the party of the year. I got kicked out because I wasn't invited. The party was in my back yard, hosted by my brother. FML

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Mean girls

By Anonymous - 30/11/2021 05:01

Today, I found out via Whatsapp status about a girl's outing of a group I'm in. I wasn't invited. I'm 35 and it's high school all over again. FML

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Madrias 36

Wednesday 9 September 2015 9:09

Sounds to me like someone either wanted to have a massive orgy, or someone wanted to play "I'm totally single" in a crowd full of drunken fools. I'm not one to scream "ditch the bitch" like a lot of people are, but I'd say it's a big red flag.

nzhx 23

Wednesday 9 September 2015 9:09

Well then maybe it's time to have a long talk with your girlfriend.

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MidnaLink 33

Wednesday 9 September 2015 13:47

She didn't want to, because he wasn't "cool" enough.

nemisis11 12

Wednesday 9 September 2015 13:51

Are you attending the same college?

HoboMeth 33

Wednesday 9 September 2015 15:56

Ask people who went there what happened there

bad_boyfriend 10

Wednesday 9 September 2015 16:15

I've got news for you dude. If she doesn't want you at the party she is looking to change her situation.

Kiernan151 25

Wednesday 9 September 2015 16:25

A lot of the things that happened "Today" didn't actually happen today. FML just has it set up that way.

Kiernan151 25

Wednesday 9 September 2015 16:28

Maybe she didn't invite you because people like to have, and this may come as a shock for some people, space. Yep, not everyone wants to be with they're girlfriend/boyfriend 24/7. Maybe her friends went and they had a girls night.

jmcr 27

Wednesday 9 September 2015 16:57

I agree that its ok to spend some time away from your S.O for a girls/boys night but usually the decent thing to do is to tell them before you go out with your friends. OP gf didnt tell him until after the party. so she clearly doesn't respect him at all if she did she would have told him that she was going to a party with just friends.

momof3honeybee 13

Wednesday 9 September 2015 17:19

That was wrong of her. Sorry op.

yherrera0926 4

Wednesday 9 September 2015 17:48

sorry to hear that... but all kidding aside, dump her! bottom line is: no one's partner should be partying w/o them (at the very least) knowing about it - that's a HUGE RED FLAG!!

8Dirty1 24

Wednesday 9 September 2015 18:27

she had a hidden agenda and you weren't part of the plan

ourtneyc 14

Wednesday 9 September 2015 19:23

For someone you've spent two years of your life with, I would have to ask, has she done something like this before? not necessarily a party or so but something inconsiderate like that?