well maybe you can be the bridesmaid of the punch. Thats important right?

Maybe the sister in law simply has more close friends than the you. Or friends she has known for longer. It's still a little hurtful - maybe gently suggest you be in charge of something else too. I suggest not kicking up a big fuss about it though - you've have your big day, let her have hers.

I agree. This comment thread has really shocked me with the amount of vindictive, silly, entitled little people there are out there who believe something of this significance is just owed to them.

If she is your sister in law, doesn't that mean she's already married to your brother? I'm confused...

If you're just gonna call people petty for posting something on this site then why bother even reading them?

Hey ... free cake ! (:

Punch at a wedding? Don't they save that for the reception? This one shoulda been filtered out...

Well sometimes it happens like that if it were me i would spike the punch

How did she approach you with this request? Was she sensitive about it, or demanding, or did she just assume you'd be happy to do her bidding? Weddings can be sticky situations with families and whatnot, and she may not have a lot of choice in her own wedding party if her family is demanding. On the other hand, she might just be a stuck-up bitch. I don't know.

If she's ur sister in law then isn't she technically married to ur brother?