By ElizaZee - 19/09/2013 01:45 - United States - Malvern
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Hi, I'm the OP. Anyway, from what we've pieced together based on the accounts of family and friends, his girlfriend stayed with him for five years because she was a gold digger. My brother is fairly rich, and he always gave her expensive jewelry because he loved her so much. She would always wear the jewelry, but then it would mysteriously disappear after a few months. We suspect she was selling it, and basically using him. Also, we didn't think she stayed faithful to him, but he never listened. I guess she was off loving another man while my brother was unsuspectingly giving her jewelry that she could then sell. In other words, she's a bitch, and it's a good thing overall that she said no.
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There should be f***k his life button
That's Epic. Now those onlookers will never forget her.
Your life isn't ******. Your brother's life is.
I doubt he's not talking to you because of your involvement. Perhaps he's too heartbroken. Get over yourself OP and just be there for him when he's ready to talk
Yupp, it deff sucks for him
And this is why you don't propose to someone without finding out how they feel about marrying you first, especially in public. It's not that hard to have a conversation that goes "So, where do you see this/us going in x years? Would you like to get married at some point?" instead of bombarding them with this unexpectedly in public, particularly if she does have social anxiety and doesn't feel okay about a crowd gathering.
What a piece of human shit
i disagree with the people who are telling the OP not to mind and to give his brother time. it's not the OP's fault that his brother made a bad decision in proposing to his girlfriend without being sure she would say yes. it's selfish and immature to blame the OP for something for which he has absolutely no responsibility. i know he's hurt, but instead of blaming him, the brother could be leaning on the OP for support, which i'm sure would be gladly given. people should take responsibility for their actions and decisions, no matter how painful the result. that's just my 2 cents.
He's likely not only hurt, but feeling humiliated as well. He probably doesn't want to talk to OP, and I'm guessing anybody else, out of pure embarrassment. That's why OP should be understanding. When something like this happens to you, it gives you license to be a little irrational.
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i'm speechless. why stay together for 5 years when she didn't love him -ever?!
That is beyond messed up. What was she doing with him for five years then?