Don't go along with it, think of the long term! Not worth it!

Tell her so when you show it in the future its not shocking. At least talk to her, for both of your benefit. If its not an arranged marriage don't pretend it is. Don't permanently damage both your futures at least speak up to her, then decide something together.

I'm sorry but, u just one day felt u didn't love her anymore?

Love isn't all just butterflies and lust. that's just the "honeymoon stage" (ironic you're complaining about it being over before the actual honeymoon). To love someone is not just a feeling, but a conscious act that isn't always easy.

Is she ugly?

Don't married people hate each other anyway? Looks like you've just fast forwarded this upcoming marriage ten years. Throw in a couple kids, a dog, and a white picket fence and you're living the American dream. Multiply this scenario by 3 and then you die. Kudos buddy, youre a third of the way there. Hopefully the next two wives appease you a little more. My advice, save up every dollar for that overtime at the strip club, I mean work, you're gonna be putting in every night. God bless America... and yes, FYL.

Don't you people realize this is gonna be the best wedding EVER!!!! Just don't wait until the reception to get smash mouthed drunk. Maybe curse at the minister, and when he asks if anyone opposes the marriage to speak now or forever hold your peace, maybe raise your hand a little and giggle like a little school girl... It should come natural being how soft you are. Also, post lots of pictures of you and the bridesmaids and none of you and your wife on Facebook. U can caption each one with me and a hottie I found at the wedding. Also, once u get to the reception take full advantage of the open bar and if u can be so lucky try to fall asleep in between her mothers breasts. If she asks say u accidentally mistook her for you. By the end of the wedding she'll despise you. Now, during the honeymoon keep things consistent. Smashed every night, grabbing waitresses butts, u know arrogant male donkey stuff...and now comes the grand finale. When u get back from the honeymoon you'll be hated by most all of her family. Knock her up. Wait for the kid to be popped out and then game on. By that time she'll hate you so much she will inevitably be cheating on you. Document the poor shlub and her doing the Mexican midninight mambo, and all your ducks are in a row. Now, by this time a divorce is already in the mix, the only difference is you take her for everything she is worth...AHHH YES!!! Sweet success. And that ladies and gentlemen is how you truly flip the script. Turn those lemonades into limonada and head for the border. You, my friend, are about to be a very rich Mexican tycoon...and sitting very pretty if I might add. Churros on me, I'll see you in Tijuana in 2017... Actually let's make it 2018, you've just inspired me to find my own Mexicant marriage.

You're crazy tell her and don't get married. It'll crush her more in a few years when you have a divorce. And imagine the money you'll save.

You need to give this a lot of thought and if 100% sure, you need to tell her. Also let her know you don't have the balls to tell her family. Maybe you can write a letter.. or grow a pair and tell them what happened if they ever speak to you again.

all couples go through times where they feel the love has been lost. even married couples. you have to actively try to keep it going. it's a constant battle and constant work. if you ever "did love her" then try couples counseling. talk to her. communication is key