By Living_Loving - 07/03/2010 01:21 - Australia
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Hey OP here, my boyfriend is a full time University student who works three nights a week and is currently trying to pay off his $20,000 degree. Yes it was the first time I had met his mother, and obviously if she was home I wouldn't have stayed over if she didn't want me to. Give me some credit. And oath it was one of the most embarrassing experiences of my life. -.-
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If you live with someone, you have to respect their boundaries whether they are parents, friends, or roommates. If parents/friends/roommates don't want certain people to spend the night, you ought to respect that. The fact that he refuses to do that tells you a lot about him - that he'll go behind YOUR back too on things. The fact he lives with his parents isn't a deal-breaker, it's the fact that he doesn't RESPECT them that's the deal-breaker. His parents/sibling came home early because they suspected they couldn't trust him - and they were right. Unless you knew that you weren't supposed to be over there, you didn't deserve it at all. Don't take it personally.
well hes 20, and sex is a completely natural thing, especially if it was just them two and it wasnt anything wild. If my mom walked in shed give me the the *licks a V* thing and wink lol (my mom would support me is what im trying to get across)...white people get too uptight about this stuff!! And about him living with his parents...hes 20! Thats a perfectly normal age to live with his parents! By that age youre in school and with a dead-end job...whats better? A cockroach filled/studio/dirty apartment? Or his parents house?
Completely agree with #87, it doesn't matter how old are you, even if you're 30 and staying over at your parents for the weekend and they don't want you having sex in their house you need to respect that. If you have a problem with it, get a motel room. Also to the people making 20 and still at home comments, I'm guessing you never went to college, if you did you would know if students go to a local college, odds are they stay home to save money. Unless mommy and daddy are paying for your rent/dorm which in case you are no better than the person living with them, bunch of damn hypocrites.
THANK YOU! My friend is 21 and with her parents, shes in college with a job that doesnt pay bullcrap, how is she suppossed to support herself? I think 27 is the limit, after that i think its a bit wierd, 30 is just sad
I'm guessing you're a tard but unlike your statement about me being uneducated, i'm right. I've got a degree in broadcast journalism and am going for one in English. I'm not sorry your broke ass didn't have enough money saved up to move out as you more than likely spent it all on superfluous items. I was out at 17, it's not hard...you just have to have a drive; damn shame you don't have it no? The easiest way to supplement the income that seems to have evaded your mind would be to have roommates if you can't get a place on your own.
not really an FML for u. but sucks for him though. a 20 year old still a baby boy. im 14 and im way past that stage.
fail just .................just a fail
Hey OP here, my boyfriend is a full time University student who works three nights a week and is currently trying to pay off his $20,000 degree. Yes it was the first time I had met his mother, and obviously if she was home I wouldn't have stayed over if she didn't want me to. Give me some credit. And oath it was one of the most embarrassing experiences of my life. -.-
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I think people who are criticizing this kid for being 20 and not out of the house yet are being ridiculous. It's really expensive to be able to live on your own and at that age, it's highly unlikely that you will have a job that pays enough to support yourself, especially if you're still studying. >.> Well, it's like that in my country.
snickers: first off no one said anything about sex, and 2nd even if they had sex he has a room. it's not that big of a deal. it's not like they fukced in her bed.