By pissed - 04/05/2009 04:25 - United States

Today, I was on Facebook looking at pictures of my boyfriend, who was in his friend's wedding this past weekend. He said that none of the girlfriends could come because it would cost too much for the couple. I spent the weekend alone, and all his friend's girlfriends are in the pictures. FML
I agree, your life sucks 63 164
You deserved it 4 984

Same thing different taste

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Cooper0526 0

wow, number 5, she should do that if she's like 12.

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Agree with 15. What a twat, nobody I know goes to weddings alone if they can find someone to go with! What is his problem, some other girl there he's checking out in the crowds?

Chaith 16

So worked up over not being able to accompany your boyfriend everywhere? Spend the weekend alone, and then writes a FML about it? Does anyone else find this really pathetic? I think the real FML is that her boyfriend is soon going to slip through her vice grip, and there's no friends to speak of.

stephanieeDawnx 0

The FML is not because she spent the weekend alone, or because she couldn't accompany him "everywhere" (even though this was just one wedding..?) The FML was that he said she (his girlfriend) couldn't go, then looked at pictures & saw everyone else's girlfriend there. I don't know about you, but until he justifies what he did, I would be pretty upset, too.

It could be him, it could be you. Talk to him and be prepared for a break-up. We don't know how long you've been together. Maybe he was asked to come alone. Maybe he didn't want you getting 'in the mood' for a wedding. Maybe he wanted to check out bridesmaids. Maybe he was misinformed and felt bad and didn't want to tell you that you missed out. Too many maybes. Pick a time when you're not in a rush and neither of you are angry. And don't get angry while you're talking, just remain calm.

@#23, Weddings are different. She wouldn't be talking about this if she didn't see girlfriends in the pictures. She feels snubbed and maybe she was and maybe she wasn't.

Eh, it really depends on the situation here. Did your boyfriend not let you go or was it the couple who got married? If your boyfriend hit your name or something, he's a jerk. If it was the couple, take into account how stressful having a wedding is and how expensive. My partner wasn't invited to my cousin's wedding, but at that point we'd only been dating for half a year, no one knew if it was going to work and if it was worth the extra money. If you're a new couple, it's a lot harder to justify the cost. Hell, who would know if you guys would even last until the wedding? It's wedding etiquette which sucks. However if you guys have been together for a while, that's kinda shitty of them.

If I was in your position, I would either dump him or get even... Plan a vacation with a bunch of friends including guy friends and tell him "boyfriends are allowed to come because it cost too much for couples" and make sure you get a bunch of pictures of all your couple friends with you at some awesome resort. Maybe then he'll realize how he made you feel.

If he is ashamed of dating you that he wouldn't take you to a friends' wedding, dump his sorry behind.

CryingHowls 0

how many girlfriends does he have? and don't fyl over this, just teach him a lesson about how he should treasure u