By MadWorld - 28/08/2016 17:49

Today, it's been six months since my husband and I have miscarried our daughter who we named Hana Grace. My sister just revealed she is having a girl and naming her Hana Grace since "the name is up for grabs now". FML
I agree, your life sucks 29 642
You deserved it 1 286

Same thing different taste

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As long as you hold no ill will against the poor girl just because her mother is a ****.

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Just tell her that it's bad luck to give the name of a recently deceased baby to another baby, as the new one might die like the old one. If it's not working, buy this female pooch.

Lizzy500 16

If she was naming her after the cousin who never was, that would be sweet. If she's using the name so you can't, she's a ****, and that's not a word I use lightly.

The fact that she considers the name "up for grabs" doesn't indicate good intentions.

it's not about OP wanting to use the name for their next child, it's about the memories, sadness and the loss they connect with the name of THEIR baby every time they would have to hear it in the future. it's simply disrespectful.

WOW,ive heared some ****** up shit in my time and that's up there on the top 10

Wow just ...blood can be so cruel. I'm sorry yours is a Careless, Uncouth, Neglectful (of your feelings), Truclent. As others have suggested it was borish of her to word it such rather than in honor of or similar. If talking to her does not work try the standard slap of rough reality and point out if she values your feelings what so ever she'll change her mind. (Hopefully not to clymidia... Another FML I once read)

nykkilynn16 7

I am so sorry for your loss. There is nothing else I could say that hasn't already been said. I hope you and your husband will be able to resolve this issue and have healthy children in the future.

It would be one thing if she was doing it to honor your child, but she should have asked first.

askullnamedbilly 33

Didn't expect anyone to manage to be more of a bitch than OP's sister, but looks like the internet delivered nonetheless.

The internet excels at finding bitchier people every day, unfortunately.

35, while the sister is a bitch on her part, there's no need to make a comment that's pretty much asking for the innocent fetus to die.

Your sister is being awful and needs to realize the name is NOT up for grabs. Your daughter still has that name, even though she wasn't born. I sincerely hope she changes her mind and I hope you have your rainbow baby.

I am truly sorry for your loss OP, and your sister is a freaking idiot.