By STOP - 08/05/2014 13:55 - Australia - West Hoxton

Today, it's five days until my wedding and I still can't tell my bride apart from her twin sister. They share clothes, have the same haircut, and they even take turns flirting with me to "catch me off guard" because they think it's hilarious to trick me. I'm scared I'll marry the wrong one. FML
I agree, your life sucks 71 308
You deserved it 8 874

Same thing different taste

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kdm_km1 19

Just go with who's in the wedding dress that day!

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If you're marrying her, you should have known her long enough to be able to tell them apart. Identical doesn't mean that they're the same down to the last freckle, and certainly they will have different personalities. If you haven't taken the time to get to know her, maybe you shouldn't be getting married at all. Just saying.

You do know that twins can do a spectacular job of mimicking each other's behavior, right?

I agree with 102 after all they have known each other longer

if he doesn't see her sister often enough, he wouldn't see the differences.

So, when you end up sleeping with the wrong twin, neither of them can get mad at you because maybe they shouldn't have taken to tricking you so much, right?

So you didn't think to make sure you could tell your fiancee apart from her twin before you went through all the wedding hullabaloo? Anyway you can convince your fiancee to get matching tattoos? Normally, they're something many couples regret, but if you can convince her to get one in a place that's sometimes exposed and sometimes covered (like the leg or upper arm), perhaps that will help. Unless her impish sister gets the same tattoo in the same spot. Then you're screwed.

i dont think they should trick you like that all the time. its going to cause to be wary and untrusting of them which isnt good in a relationship. best of luck to you op on marrying the right twin!

I feel you. My boyfriend is an identical twin. It was impossible until my boyfriend broke his nose now he has a bump that distinguishes them

Have you considered the possibility that they both want you but don't know how to seriously suggest it to you without you jumping to the "hooray! twins threesome!" line of thought, or explain it to their parents and friends? Trust me. There is never an easy way to breach that subject with a typical person.

TheDrifter 23

If the sister moves in they could live happily ever after. So long as op never tried too hard to figure out when he was being tricked.

That's awful for you OP! But don't worry about it, I'm sure they won't take the joke as far as letting you marry the wrong one. Even if they joked about it with you, your fiance would only be offending herself.

Just to add, the 3some comment is An option if the twins and the dude are cool with it. FYI to those that wonder, the twins and 'the groom' can have a 3-some without the twins ever touching. Or at least touching in any 'sexual' way.

People have no imagination if they think they must touch. I see people saying that all of the time, and I just laugh.

Play along. Sounds like it might be fun.