That's what happens when you date people in the workplace. Had you focused on your job than finding a bf there, your bf would still be employed and none of this would have happened. I hate to rub it in but its true. I hope you learned your lesson.

It really blows he fired your boyfriend OP. I hope you get it worked out. Personally I think there's more to the story but I'm not gonna judge if there is. I'm just gonna wish you luck. :)

Yeah it does suck. People make mistakes and OP should learn from now on. The good thing is that the op and her bf are probably still together. Always find a positive thing to a negative thing. Good luck to you and your bf. Another job can be found. But love still goes on.

laulinavega - Do you have any friends where you work? It's the same thing. I'm sure OP didn't walk into work thinking "Today all I'm going to do is get a boyfriend". Harping on about no relationships in a workplace is ridiculous. It's a social place, unless you're forced to work isolated in silence.

Things happen that are out of our control I'm pretty sure op wasn't spending all her time at work 'looking' for. Bf

I do have friends at work, yes. We socialize out of work as well but I dont have a bf at work because I value my job and Im aware of the possible consequences.

#51, the hell? People don't try to find love at the job, it just happens. I didn't expect it to happen to me, all I cared about was work and it doesn't affect my work whatsoever.

What do you mean it was "out of control?" I'm pretty sure "Hey wanna be my gf/bf?" wasn't an accident. They choose to do this and look where it got the bf. We can only hope they can learn from this mistake and still continue with their relationship.

I bet your boss wants to date you. That is why he made the comment about relationships in the workplace are not allowed. It depends on where you work if you sign a contract stating it is against policies or not.

#67 You're too careful and that's a problem. You're so afraid that something bad will happen if you dated a co-worker that you shelter yourself. Your relationship has absolutely nothing to do with your job and it shouldn't. Its also none of their business what you do outside of your job just as long as they keep it outside of the job and keep it professional. From what I am reading it sounds like the boss was jealous because both should have been fired, not just him.

laulinavega - If you have a partner at work, but act professional, then there isn't an issue. Just like if you have a friend and work and goof off all the time, you should face consequences. Basically every scenario that could possibly go wrong with a work relationship can go wrong with a work friendship. Ex: If a you fall out with a friend, it's akin to breaking up.

Laulinavega-"If you had done your job instead of finding a BF," you keep making it sound like Op got her job in order to look for a boyfriend. How do you know she isn't doing her job? Actually we know she is good at her job because she didn't get fired. You keep dumping on Op which isn't fair, especially because there is no policy against dating a coworker where op works.

If there wasnt a policy against dating where OP works ops bf wouldnt have gotten fired. The boss said that it wasnt against policy so op can confess. That's how they get ya nowadays. So op told the truth and her bf got fired. Like I said if op thought with her head instead of raging hormones, none of this would have happened.

No, i am not too careful. Office romances fail tbh. What if you guys breakup? Its gonna be awkward and cause tension. Thats no fun. Thats why I dont even bother. I have coworkers of the opposite sex I work with and we are super tight. No, I dont have romantic feelings for them because i think bills are more important than raging hormones. Plus i wouldnt like it if we dated, broke up and caused more problems. And the boss wasnt jealous. He did his job. Its against company policy to date on the job and he did what he had to do. Shit, if i was a boss and 2 people dated theyd be out in a heartbeat because thats disruptive to the workplace.

If it was against work policy then they both would have been fired, not just the boyfriend. I agree with the person that said it sounds like the boss has a thing for OP.

Thats ridiculous. The boss cant be in love with the op thats against the rules. That would be hypocritical on his part. He fired ops bf because he had to do what he had to do. Maybe ops bf was a distraction to op. When i was in school if two people socialized too much the teacher moved them apart. Thats what happens. Relationships in the workplace are disruptive to the work enviroment. Professional or not. Its not allowed. Wanna date? Then quit and go on a romantic movie or something. Dont like it? Too bad.

#51 just stop talking. You are the definition of a bitch. Quit worrying about what op does at her job (which seems to be going great) and go have a few drinks. You need it.

Well your boyfriend may have lost his job but atleast he has a pretty girl to cheer him up

#100 flirt alert!!

Tell them the whole thing and how your boss was an ahole...

From the sound of it, your boss was jealous and fired your boyfriend as payback for it.

Good for you want a cookie?

two years married or two years in a relationship?

the moral of this story is kept personal matters off of social media, hope you'll get you job back or work someplace better

Learned my lesson!! Haha

Because dishonesty is the best policy...