By Emma Eisnor - 18/06/2018 06:14

Today, my boyfriend tried to be nice and change my oil, but he accidentally emptied all my transmission fluid into the pan. When he poured it back into my car, we realized he never put the cap back on and all my transmission fluid was poured all over the ground. FML
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Emma Eisnor tells us more.

Yay my second FML posted! He was trying to do something nice. I wasn’t really that mad. He drove to the store and bought me more transmission fluid so we were fine. He’s a sweetheart, my oil never got changed though haha.

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I never said I could do it. I barely understood what he was doing. That doesn’t make it any less stressful though

Just like how my dad always tries to be a plumber to fix the pipelines and ends up flooding the house, and ultimately calls for help..

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StagGT 13

I like that OP sounds like she actually would've done the job right

I never said I could do it. I barely understood what he was doing. That doesn’t make it any less stressful though

julfunky 29

I like how you pick up on subtle text cues that aren’t even there. Besides, this ended with the transmission fluid not in her car and all over the floor. So it’s not like she could’ve been any worse.

StagGT 13

Yeah, I was legitimately complimenting her. She replied to me saying she wouldn't have been able to do it, which I actually thought she sounded like she could. Way to be the pot calling the kettle black. I LOVE FML 🤣🤣🤣

StagGT 13

Yeah, I was legitimately complimenting her. She replied to me saying she wouldn't have been able to do it, which I actually thought she sounded like she could. Way to be the pot calling the kettle black. I LOVE FML 🤣🤣🤣

StagGT 13

Yeah, I was legitimately complimenting her. She replied to me saying she wouldn't have been able to do it, which I actually thought she sounded like she could. Way to be the pot calling the kettle black. I LOVE FML 🤣🤣🤣

StagGT 13

Yeah, I was legitimately complimenting her. She replied to me saying she wouldn't have been able to do it, which I actually thought she sounded like she could. Way to be the pot calling the kettle black. I LOVE FML 🤣🤣🤣

I hope he doesn't try to be nice and remove your appendix.

bluhbluhbluh 14

Oh but no one is romantic enough to do that.

thehaystackerine 20

That takes some extreme talent there. The engine oil has a drain plug, every vehicle I have ever been under, you have to completely un bolt the transmission pan to drain the fluid.

Every automatic trans has a drain plug, just like the oil pan

They most certainly do not. They have a filler plug but very few have a drain plug. Most you have to remove the oil pan because your supposed to change the filter and gasket at the same time.

Not sure what cars you work on but all the ones I get under, have a drain plug for the transmission pan.

Just like how my dad always tries to be a plumber to fix the pipelines and ends up flooding the house, and ultimately calls for help..

PenguinPal3017 19

Maybe leave it to the professionals next time.

Lobby_Bee 17

At least now you know there will be fresh tranny fluids, not drain and pour old fluid back in tranny oil.

Things happen, just drive that car to the store and buy some oil and trans fluid

Did he at least top off your blinker fluid

Mal2003 17

May someone please explain, I don't know car biology.

The car got dehydrated and cannot longer move. A blood transfusion may help in prolonging its life but needed to be done by an experienced doctor. There. Now you’re up to date.

Basically he went to swap the old oil for new oil, a common thing every few thousand miles. Said engine oil keeps your engine lubricated and moving properly. Instead he drained the transmission fluid, which does for your transmission what the engine oil does for the engine. (The transmission is the part that transfers or "transmits" power from your engine to your tires and is connected to the lever in your car that in an automatic has the PND12, or something similar, or has the gears listed for a manual transmission.) It does not need to be changed anywhere near as often, and is not something an average joe may have spare quarts of in their garage. Being low on transmission fluid will cause the gear shifts to be rougher, can potentially overheat the transmission, and in extreme cases, set the car on fire. But that's only if you're really low, push it hard, and/or ignore all the warning signs.

I'm sad that the car you described doesn't have a way to go backwards.

That's ok. Neither does her boyfriend.