By hannah - 14/04/2013 15:21 - United Kingdom
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hi, i'm the girl who wrote this originally (i've since got an account so changed my name- maybe some people won't believe that but whatever) and i just want to say in response to some people that it was VERY clear on both sides that we were a couple, we were not friends with privileges.. also i am not a stalker, i just wanted to specify exactly how long we'd been together because it emphasises just how shitty what he did was.. like someone else said, a year doesn't really explain that fully. maybe he was using me for sex and i was practise, but i'm not as young or naive as some people here seem to think... this isn't my first relationship, but it was my first really serious one hence meeting parents, having sex etc etc.. i thought what i felt towards him was mutual, and i think if many of you had known us as a couple you would be very surprised about what has happened, most people were always commenting on how much he seemed to adore me. right now i have no idea what his motivations were, but everytime i speak to him i want to stab him.. so im refraining from speaking to him or seeking an explanation at the minute SO thanks to everyone who's been supportive, **** knows what his problem is but im getting over it seeing as he's been such a dick to me, and i just posted him this link, so any extra abuse toward him would be welcome.. ha
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LOL @ #16
awww i'm so sorry hun. good riddance though. he's an asshole!!! i hope your next one will treat you way better :(
Yes, guys who say 'I love you' and show you to their parents. What assholes. It's SO OBVIOUS, ANYBODY COULD SEE IT.
what an asshole.
Unless you have never experienced any kind of love before in your life (parental love, sibling love, platonic love of friends), you probably had a nagging feeling in the pit of your stomach that something was wrong. Maybe he didn't introduce you to his friends as his girlfriend. Maybe his friends disrespected you and he made excuses for them. Maybe his parents just treated you like one of the guys. Maybe other girls hit on him while you were around and he flirted back, and when you complained he'd just shrug it off. Whatever the case, the hints were there. Sucks this happened to you, but next time you see those signs you need to have a heart to heart with your significant other.
omg! 4 a sec i thought u were my ex, she dumped me on the 16th because she said she was too mean to me and a bitch, i asked her if i could do anything or if we could get back together, she quickly said no. its not as bad but 17 months is a long time, i kinda kno how u feel, well at least just a lil
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:( that makes me sad.
What an asshole. You're better off without him. Good luck on that girlfriend search, buddy.