By hannah - 14/04/2013 15:21 - United Kingdom

Today, my boyfriend of 17 months, the first guy to tell me he loves me, the guy I lost my virginity to, the only guy whose parents I've met, told me we should stop 'hooking up' because it's weird that I was telling everyone we were a couple and it was ruining his chances of finding a girlfriend. FML
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hannah321 0

hi, i'm the girl who wrote this originally (i've since got an account so changed my name- maybe some people won't believe that but whatever) and i just want to say in response to some people that it was VERY clear on both sides that we were a couple, we were not friends with privileges.. also i am not a stalker, i just wanted to specify exactly how long we'd been together because it emphasises just how shitty what he did was.. like someone else said, a year doesn't really explain that fully. maybe he was using me for sex and i was practise, but i'm not as young or naive as some people here seem to think... this isn't my first relationship, but it was my first really serious one hence meeting parents, having sex etc etc.. i thought what i felt towards him was mutual, and i think if many of you had known us as a couple you would be very surprised about what has happened, most people were always commenting on how much he seemed to adore me. right now i have no idea what his motivations were, but everytime i speak to him i want to stab him.. so im refraining from speaking to him or seeking an explanation at the minute SO thanks to everyone who's been supportive, **** knows what his problem is but im getting over it seeing as he's been such a dick to me, and i just posted him this link, so any extra abuse toward him would be welcome.. ha

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lnm701 0

What an asshole. You're better off without him. Good luck on that girlfriend search, buddy.

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awww i'm so sorry hun. good riddance though. he's an asshole!!! i hope your next one will treat you way better :(

poguemahoney 0

muuuuuuuuahhhhhhhhhahahahahahahahaha bahhahahahaha hhhhhhhhhhahahahahahahaha DEBTED damn you got played hardbody

TariqX2 0

Why do you girls always seem to fall for these assholes god this kinda goes to show that girls will always fall for these guys

Yes, guys who say 'I love you' and show you to their parents. What assholes. It's SO OBVIOUS, ANYBODY COULD SEE IT.

xThatRandomGirlx 0

Aww, I'm sorry that had to happen. You're much better off without him then. PS- Talk as much shit about him as you can. That'll really mess up his chances of finding a girlfriend, an asshole like him doesn't deserve one anyway.

simplewhimsy 0

Unless you have never experienced any kind of love before in your life (parental love, sibling love, platonic love of friends), you probably had a nagging feeling in the pit of your stomach that something was wrong. Maybe he didn't introduce you to his friends as his girlfriend. Maybe his friends disrespected you and he made excuses for them. Maybe his parents just treated you like one of the guys. Maybe other girls hit on him while you were around and he flirted back, and when you complained he'd just shrug it off. Whatever the case, the hints were there. Sucks this happened to you, but next time you see those signs you need to have a heart to heart with your significant other.

StarlightRyouchi 0

That's horrible. I would have slapped him in the face. :( Why would he tell you he loves you if he was apparently just hooking up with you..? Ugh..

omg! 4 a sec i thought u were my ex, she dumped me on the 16th because she said she was too mean to me and a bitch, i asked her if i could do anything or if we could get back together, she quickly said no. its not as bad but 17 months is a long time, i kinda kno how u feel, well at least just a lil