By hannah - 14/04/2013 15:21 - United Kingdom

Today, my boyfriend of 17 months, the first guy to tell me he loves me, the guy I lost my virginity to, the only guy whose parents I've met, told me we should stop 'hooking up' because it's weird that I was telling everyone we were a couple and it was ruining his chances of finding a girlfriend. FML
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hannah321 0

hi, i'm the girl who wrote this originally (i've since got an account so changed my name- maybe some people won't believe that but whatever) and i just want to say in response to some people that it was VERY clear on both sides that we were a couple, we were not friends with privileges.. also i am not a stalker, i just wanted to specify exactly how long we'd been together because it emphasises just how shitty what he did was.. like someone else said, a year doesn't really explain that fully. maybe he was using me for sex and i was practise, but i'm not as young or naive as some people here seem to think... this isn't my first relationship, but it was my first really serious one hence meeting parents, having sex etc etc.. i thought what i felt towards him was mutual, and i think if many of you had known us as a couple you would be very surprised about what has happened, most people were always commenting on how much he seemed to adore me. right now i have no idea what his motivations were, but everytime i speak to him i want to stab him.. so im refraining from speaking to him or seeking an explanation at the minute SO thanks to everyone who's been supportive, **** knows what his problem is but im getting over it seeing as he's been such a dick to me, and i just posted him this link, so any extra abuse toward him would be welcome.. ha

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lnm701 0

What an asshole. You're better off without him. Good luck on that girlfriend search, buddy.

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nickk_v 0

You definitely deserve it. I know a girl like this, are you Megan by any chance?? lol. Well, you weren't a couple, so why the hell were you telling ppl that he was your boyfriend? Stop being pretentious and keep it on the DL, obviously he's ashamed of you. Hook ups aren't meant to have love involved.. your fault for liking him.

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TheRealStunts 27

Are you retarded? She said THEY WERE a couple up until he said that shit. He's just a piece of shit and hopefully he never actually finds another girlfriend.

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Watervixen 27

I bet you didn't read ops response #174

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Islander_fml 5

I'm sorry you had to find out in this way, but: When a guy says "I love you," always take it to mean "I want to have sex with you." Refuse to interpret those words any other way for at least a good few months. And if you don't care and just want to have sex, too, go for it. But otherwise wait. Hold him off. If he really loves you, he'll wait too. And if he dumps you, then he's a loser and you can do better.

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IntrepidPig 21

I can't believe you're actually serious about this...

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Ignominy 0

FYL indeed. That's awful. But you should at least feel lucky that you're not with the asshole anymore. =/

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brenna805 0

damn... that sucks big time. bummer. im sorry.

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disgracedmyself 0

Wtf?! That guy is a total ****. You deserve better and i'm sure you will find better. :) I cant believe he told you he loved you, introuduced you to his parents and still doesnt think your his girlfriend?!

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syvjoid 0

What a jerk. This is the kind of guy that makes all of us guys look bad.

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jt8787 0

so its clear, i'm a guy and this gy is a ******* asshole. you shoulda followed that up with a knee to his balls or "well i'm glad you brought that up cuz its been on my mind for the last 16 months now". you're much better off without that douchebag. on the plus side, karma's a bitch so that should be fun for him.

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charlygabriel 0

hello hannah look i dont know you but i feel like i do...like im connected with you in some im not sure whether its on a spiritual level or something else completly different i just feel like i see you everyday in my life wondering through my school corridors talking to me on facebook it's weird? i cant stop thinking about you and i would like you to contact me... i think we will make good friends i'll comfort you when you fight with your sister i will appreciate lifts from your father... i will borrow your clothes and use your ID i will always be there for you despite the fact i have no idea who you are...

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untitledmofo 0

i have no idea who you are, or what you're like.. but if that guy acts like that, he doesn't deserve you no matter what. I've tried almost the exact same thing.. i can only say that i hope you find a better guy ^^

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kissmeimkati 0

Sounds like he should have said this a long time ago if that was really how he'd felt this whole time. He was using you! What a total asshole. Him telling you he loves you is the worst part. Enjoy the freedom of being single, or find a better guy who doesn't do the same things as this guy. (And ignore the comment by #10- most guys don't care if a girl is "relatively innocent" unless they are the same way themselves, they want to have the upper hand, they have a virgin fetish, or they're just totally chauvinistic and believe they can sleep around all the want but a girl who's had sex is a ****.)

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