I couldn't agree with you more. I think **** is perfectly fine for men, women, and couples as long as it doesn't take over their lives.

I'm so glad to know that someone else thinks the same as I do! It's sad that women are so insecure that they're gonna freak over ****! I, actually, trust my man! We watch **** together! He watches it by himself, as well! It's pictures of women that he won't ever get the pleasure of meeting... So why freak out about it??? GAH!!!

Exactly! I mean, as long as they aren't practicing it with someone else, I don't see a problem with it. I guess some women are just overly jealous.

The post doesn't say whether it was half naked girls from some random site or if was someone he knows in real life sending him these. I don't care about random sites, but I'm sure any girl would be pissed if it were some woman he knew sending him these racy photos !

I believe your posts to be slightly inflated.

I think **** inside of a relationship is only fine if both people know about it and consent. It is viewed much like cheating to many people (male and female) and if it isn't explicitly discussed in the relationship... It becomes cheating.

38- You wishing that stuff on me is extremely shitty of you and just petty! I am simply stating that I think that **** is okay! I actually encourage ****! Absolutely NOWHERE did I say that it was okay for him to be receiving pics from girls, personally! I am saying that **** is great! And that it's pathetic that girls freak out over photos of women that a man will probably never meet! (Anything is possible!) You should probably learn to re-read something before you start being a bitch to somebody and wishing terrible things on them! Don't think for one second that I wouldn't knock out a bitch if she was sending my man pics of herself! But in OPs situation,(because she didn't say that it was personally sent pics of girls he knew), the pics are, most likely, pornography! Which is COMPLETELY OKAY!!! A woman who is going to freak out over **** is a jealous, insecure, untrusting, little girl! If a woman can't trust her man enough to look at ****, then she doesn't need to be in a relationship with him! If she can't trust him enough to LOOK at PICTURES of women he will NEVER EVEN MEET, then how in the hell can she trust him enough to walk amongst REAL WOMEN he sees EVERY DAY? Think about that one! PS: Nice way to cut down and edit your comment!

People like you, that's the reason I come here for my "lol's" I really would enjoy your reaction of this happening to you. I'm sure your feelings towards it wouldn't be all butterflies and rainbows!

45- You are my "lol" of the day! Ignorance is bliss... And you're, obviously, in paradise! And FYI, I have seen the **** on my mans phone. And guess what?! It doesn't bother me one single bit! Ya know why? Because I am the only one he is with! I am secure enough with myself that I don't have to worry about my man looking at fake pictures of naked women! The way you're wishing these things on people is making me think that it's happened to you! Why are you being so harsh over a woman who is secure in her relationship and isn't afraid of her man looking at beautiful women? I have needs... And so does my man... We can fulfill most of each others needs. But it's only natural to need self satisfaction! And I pity you for not being able to embrace that! You'd probably be less cranky if you handled some of your "needs"! Just sayin'! :)

Coming from someone who " will NOT argue over the Internet, that's just silly" I am quite comfortable where I stand in my relationship, and no where in my comments does it state once - that have a problem with **** or do not enjoy it. I simply stated that OP didn't specify whether it was **** or women he knew ( which I then would have a problem with ) Apparently arguing over the Internet really isn't below you as you are so inclined to believe.

As a matter of a fact, you didn't "just simply state" that! And I don't argue over the Internet! But when you start making personal blows to me, I will get my point across and defend myself! You, clearly, stated that you would "love" to see this happen to me and see my reaction to it! So yeah.. It's a given... I'm going to say something! I find you to be extremely ignorant for what you've said! I didn't have that opinion of you until you tried to justify your argument by wishing things upon me. At first, I thought we would have a legitimate debate... But then you started making personal attacks towards me. I wouldn't wish cheating on even my worst enemy! And for you to wish that experience on somebody over the Internet because they had an intellectual rebuttal to your statement is just dirty and immature! And now you want to come back with "I was simply stating..." bullshit! Well, as far as I'm concerned, you can screw off! Because your wishes aren't going to come true! My man isn't going to cheat on me... And you will never see the reaction you're so desperately wishing for! :)

I didn't make a "blow" as to him cheating lmao. I said I'd like to see your reaction if you found pictures - since you stated that as long as the pictures are harmless and doesn't lead to cheating, it would only be admiring her beauty and sexuality. You need try a little harder at understanding my post, rather than reading what you want to read. Thank you for giving me some entertainment tonight. And I applaud you so very much on your security!

30: If they were in fact some pictures another woman sent him, then that would be a problem. The way the FML was worded made it seem like it was random girls. At least that's what I got from it. I could be wrong.

Desireev - I really hope you aren't on your computer typing all that out... If you are, I think it's very possible you might have broken your shift & 1 keys with all of those exclamation points. Giving & defending your opinion is a boon of this site, but keep the punctuation a little less "EXCITED!" I'm not knocking your point of view, just pointing out that others might take you far more seriously if you didn't end 90% of your sentences that way.

Women love shoes and men love naked women! What a great help to breaking gender stereotypes you are.

These days, all you have to do is turn on the tv, look at a magazine cover or walk outside to see near naked women. I do not expect my man to be oblivious to them. Neither do I expect him to save pictures for private viewing. The idea of me fantasizing about other men when I'm with him does not appeal to him or his ego. I feel the same way. Communication is key. Some people still think that sex is special. Some people still have values. Shoot them all! Right? This world is going to hell in a hand basket. Family values are at an all time low. Teen pregnancies grow as do their suicide attempts. But hey! Let's all be open to shared sexuality. Forget that we are humans with the capacity to think, care and love. Let's all just be animals.

80- And here I was feeling like some sort of repressed freak for not going out of my way to find sex. People are always surprised when I say that I've only been with three guys. Meanwhile my little sister, who is three years younger than me, has been with five times as many :/. But of course she has no trouble attracting interest and she currently has a boyfriend so who am I to judge really?

I am so sad for you. So so sad. One day, I hope you will realize that men and women are more than just sexual organs. You have value and are not here just to satisfy your own and other's sexual needs. You are more than a ******. Now, peace out and calm down instead of force feeding everyone your opinions. Once is enough, sunshine. This is FML land here...

They're sexual pianos! The men who abuse them are called "Players". When you've been had by a guy, they say "You've just been played". Let the thumbing down BEGIN

23: I agree 100% and actually had to look at your username to make sure I didn't post that (at least before realizing I hadn't read this FML til today, as it wasn't up yet!)

no. we don't. my fiance doesn't have pictures of half naked/naked women on his phone or computer. why? because he knows I wouldn't like it and he respects me.

I love this response, and I totally agree. I think everybody has different opinions on what is and isn't cheating. My boyfriend and I both don't like each other looking at other naked men/women, so we don't. I say if you have a problem with it, why don't you work something out with your partner? It's ridiculous that people just expect their partner to know what cheating is to them, and it's ridiculous that people are arguing over whether or not looking is cheating. Some people mind, and some people don't.

If it were women they knew, it would've been mentioned by the OP.

54- You edited your comment, though, so now you're making her look bad. Feel good?

I'm a woman and I'd definitely prefer a half naked woman to a shoe. Who lusts after shoes???

**** was ruining my intamacy in my my relationship. all it was was him doing stuff and then by the end cause he can only do it once a day I went months without it. finally got fed my my last straw which I have a big boundary is not to involve it in our time and I found him watching **** of a woman who literally look like me giving a blowpop while I was actively giving him a sexy blowpop. it all went away that day I had to make my boundary unforgivable because it was the only thing I was asking for. our intimacy has been sooo amazing every since and now we do it 2x a day. **** is desensitizing and and addiction to most. I’m not against it but I have my reasons.

**** his best friend *for* revenge? Yeah, I can't possibly think of a better solution… I'm curious as to what your response would entail if he were to have cheated on her.

17- Oh yes. That'll solve everything.. :/

I'm wondering how she could **** someone TO revenge...

17- Here I am trying to defend the male gender and their needs and you tell OP to **** her mans best friend over some silly pictures! Your moronic comment is just incredible! Please, give up your career as an advice counselor!

Prepositions are freakin hard. People who get prepositions wrong are often not native English speakers. Think about that, grammar Nazis.

Give her pics to a guy who doesn't know how to secure his private stuff? Yeah, that will work...

..you're 19 and your pic makes you look like a tool. believe it or not there are some guys out there that actually love the person they're with and don't window shop.