Wow **** that guy

What the hell is that supposed to mean?

At least you found out before you married the asshole. Now all you have to do is leave him and find someone who will actually respect you.

You deserve way better than this. There is only one place trash goes....to the dump. Don't let one large chunk of trash take away your trust in others. Good luck OP and dump him.

He's the one that's thick-headed

He's trying to deflect. Don't listen to him. I'm sure he had that statement already prepared. Yay now you can move on to someone who is nice! Have fun finding.

He could be trying to tell you that he's sleeping with his ex /because/ you're thick. Y'know, around the middle. Naw, he's probably just being a ********.

Hey guys, OP here! Yeah hahah, it was just funny because literally 5 minutes before hand, I questioned whether he had, because I had my suspicions and he had a huge go at me for even suggesting it. I'm basically 'thick' because I didn't figure that when we were arguing about his number of jobs, he said 'at least I'm not an unemployed prick' he was talking about his actual genitalia, rather than just his employment (we weren't having sex because I was still recovering from an operation because I had been really ill) I didn't want to believe it because we had been on/off for 6 years and he really meant a lot, but then he showed me their messages discussing their sex just to hurt me further, but then expected me to get over it. So I guess then I kind of had to, huh? But it wasn't the first time he had done that, first time I tried to get over it. Not this time.

I'm sorry that that happened to you. Although... If he's still your fiancé, he may have a point.

This fml is a little confusing. I had to read it a few times to understand the wording. Either way though, I hope that you ended things with him. He may not be unemployed but he's definitely a prick :/ you deserve better!