By ali456 - 01/12/2013 15:16 - United Kingdom - Dudley

Today, my fiancé left me waiting at the train station for two and a half hours because he offered his ex-girlfriend a lift to her friends wedding that was a few cities away. I normally wouldn't have minded, but I'm 6 months pregnant and it was pouring with rain. FML
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ali456 tells us more.

For those who are saying what he did was 'quite fishy', I have to agree. His excuse was, and I quote, "I only realised I had to pick you up half way through the journey, and there was no point turning back". I'm currently not speaking to him, for pretty obvious reasons, and he's now staying at his parents house. The reason I 'normally wouldn't have minded' is because if I wasn't pregnant, and if it wasn't raining, I easily could've caught the bus or walked home and sorted him out afterwards! He is also friends with his ex, and I've met her and spoken to her on quite casual terms before. And for the people who called me a 'chump' and said that I 'shouldn't have gotten pregnant in the first place', thank you - I'll keep it in mind for next time!

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Wow he just sounds like an inconsiderate asshole...

evan_7899 28

That's terrible, people like that are not worht your time OP

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i wont say he must be cheating but i agree he definitely is cheating material, if he hasn't cheated yet, he might do so in the future...let's say he's very absent minded and that its allright he gave his ex a ride but when he remembered you are waiting, at least then he should have dumped the ex and come pick you up... btw you're carrying his child, it's high time he got his priorities right...ex should be the last thing in his mind and you and your unborn child should be the first

I expect I'm echoing what has been said a lot on this thread but he doesn't sound like he has his priorities quite straight!

6 months pregnant. Not 8 or 9 months. But 6.

I'm guessing the train station was covered, which makes the rain irrelevant. Also, maybe I'm just surrounded by strong women, but being 6 months pregnant doesn't seem to stop any of the females I know from doing anything. Admittedly though, he shouldn't have offered to give his girlfriend a lift since he was in a relationship with you. I'm of the mind that exes have no place in a relationship.

Sometimes when we are in love we overlook things that we shouldn't. I'm sure I'm older than you, maybe not wiser but I've been though something similar. If he's putting her (or anyone else) ahead of you and your child now, he will do it again. I would make it clear that it wasn't acceptable and that if anything like that ever happens again you are done with him. And mean it.

imasilveira 1

You do Know that he is most probably cheating on u right now with his ex..... I hope you guys tell each other everything because guys don't normally do that

he is cheating on you plain and simple... he ****** her