By ali456 - 01/12/2013 15:16 - United Kingdom - Dudley

Today, my fiancé left me waiting at the train station for two and a half hours because he offered his ex-girlfriend a lift to her friends wedding that was a few cities away. I normally wouldn't have minded, but I'm 6 months pregnant and it was pouring with rain. FML
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ali456 tells us more.

For those who are saying what he did was 'quite fishy', I have to agree. His excuse was, and I quote, "I only realised I had to pick you up half way through the journey, and there was no point turning back". I'm currently not speaking to him, for pretty obvious reasons, and he's now staying at his parents house. The reason I 'normally wouldn't have minded' is because if I wasn't pregnant, and if it wasn't raining, I easily could've caught the bus or walked home and sorted him out afterwards! He is also friends with his ex, and I've met her and spoken to her on quite casual terms before. And for the people who called me a 'chump' and said that I 'shouldn't have gotten pregnant in the first place', thank you - I'll keep it in mind for next time!

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Wow he just sounds like an inconsiderate asshole...

evan_7899 28

That's terrible, people like that are not worht your time OP

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So normally you wouldn't mind it eh!?! Nice..good luck for your future!!

Young lady this is a wake up call for you! Listen and move on before it becomes a living hell by marrying him. Then you will have addtl stress going thru a divorce, or having addtl kids that will make you feel trapped. This is coming from a guy who has daughters, and I would advise them the same

I couldn't agree more. My mother was in a very similar scenario and she married my dad.Five kids and twenty years of hell later- single mothering would have been the way to go.

You should be his number one priority...his ex should be last...

Sweetpea22 14

I agree. My boyfriend is friends with his ex and they hang out, but my needs has always come before hers

Sweetpea22 14

It's kind of sad. His ex before that ex was a control freak and hated him talking to other girls and that made him terrified that I would get mad at him for being friends with his ex. I honestly don't care since I know he won't cheat on me

Lili_love 14

why should you being pregnant matter? rain is enough to make him an asshole

Why is your fiancé driving his ex anywhere? Its good that you're not crazy with jealousy, but it's still kind of inappropriate... Especially if you're left waiting in the pouring rain pregnant with what is presumably his child...

Hopefully things like this don't happen often, OP. Whip that guy into shape if you want to walk down the aisle and raise a kid with him. Good luck.

Your fiancé needs to get his priorities straight. Preferably before your baby is born.

Azrael9 11

You should have been at the forefront of his mind, not his ex. Seems like his priorities are not in the right place.