By ali456 - 01/12/2013 15:16 - United Kingdom - Dudley
ali456 tells us more.
For those who are saying what he did was 'quite fishy', I have to agree. His excuse was, and I quote, "I only realised I had to pick you up half way through the journey, and there was no point turning back". I'm currently not speaking to him, for pretty obvious reasons, and he's now staying at his parents house. The reason I 'normally wouldn't have minded' is because if I wasn't pregnant, and if it wasn't raining, I easily could've caught the bus or walked home and sorted him out afterwards! He is also friends with his ex, and I've met her and spoken to her on quite casual terms before. And for the people who called me a 'chump' and said that I 'shouldn't have gotten pregnant in the first place', thank you - I'll keep it in mind for next time!
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So normally you wouldn't mind it eh!?! Nice..good luck for your future!!
Young lady this is a wake up call for you! Listen and move on before it becomes a living hell by marrying him. Then you will have addtl stress going thru a divorce, or having addtl kids that will make you feel trapped. This is coming from a guy who has daughters, and I would advise them the same
I couldn't agree more. My mother was in a very similar scenario and she married my dad.Five kids and twenty years of hell later- single mothering would have been the way to go.
You should be his number one priority...his ex should be last...
I do the same...
OP, keep us updated on this!
Why are you marrying this jerk?
Why is your fiancé driving his ex anywhere? Its good that you're not crazy with jealousy, but it's still kind of inappropriate... Especially if you're left waiting in the pouring rain pregnant with what is presumably his child...
Hopefully things like this don't happen often, OP. Whip that guy into shape if you want to walk down the aisle and raise a kid with him. Good luck.
Your fiancé needs to get his priorities straight. Preferably before your baby is born.
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Wow he just sounds like an inconsiderate asshole...
That's terrible, people like that are not worht your time OP