By AlphonseMuchacha - 19/06/2016 01:16 - Australia

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Today, my flatmate came home from a date with the same guy that I have been in love with since high school. As I type, can hear them having sex through our paper thin walls. FML
I agree, your life sucks 20 234
You deserved it 2 026

AlphonseMuchacha tells us more.

Hey all OP here. Thanks for all the kind words. For those wondering, I gave my flatmate my blessing. The guy and I dated for a little while but it didn't work out, for him at least. I still harbour feelings for him but want them both to happy. Still sucks though.

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If your roommate knew, they're a grade A bitch.

I would suggest noise-cancelling headphones.

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Hey all OP here. Thanks for all the kind words. For those wondering, I gave my flatmate my blessing. The guy and I dated for a little while but it didn't work out, for him at least. I still harbour feelings for him but want them both to happy. Still sucks though.

Ohhhhh, okay. By the way you said it, it sounded like he may not have even known you had feelings for him. FYL, indeed.

Just do what I do: plan on dying alone.

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Giving your blessing but still bemoaning it here? You have issues to solve, OP. Moving on is hard, but it's worth it.

OP is obviously trying nto move on or they wouldn't have given the flat mate the metaphorical green light. That doesn't mean they can't complain a bit over having to watch them be together. In fact, not confronting that seeing (well, hearing) the ex and crush having sex hurt is more likely to make OP bitter over the whole thing than making a statement about how they are displeased with how things turned out on an anonymous site is.

Keep you head up OP I hope all works out and you find the one!

you deserved it because you didn't hook up with him before ur friend.

unrequited love is THE worst. get out of there and get hammered. don't drive tho. hang in there, OP.

If you dated him first, I think it's really messed up of them to have sex and basically force you to listen to it. Even with your "blessing." I think it shows a major lack of consideration on both of their parts.

Because he would decline a threesome somehow?

well... 3some will be a fun story to tell when drunk one day