By 20month dry spell - 27/09/2018 03:00

Today, my girlfriend thinks I'm sex-obsessed because of the number of times I've asked for it. I've asked exactly 3 times this year, one of which was on my birthday. She said no all 3 times. I'm usually too scared of her temper to even try. FML
I agree, your life sucks 4 784
You deserved it 1 390

Same thing different taste

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So, is she a great cook, or good with money. Maybe she opens doors for your career? Why do you stay?

I’ve been on both sides of this in a relationship and both times I was scared to leave, but both times I was glad to go. Just leave, it’s best for both of you.

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She don’t have a sex drive most women wants sex minimum twice a day

If you stay with her with a bad temper, no sex, and her saying you are sex obsessed, then I must mark this a “you deserve it”. It’s your choice to put up with it.

ciph3r 10

As someone who is in the middle of a divorce with this as one of the main reasons, it is best if you get out now. Same situation. I kept asking and she would tell me no. We had the adult conversations about it but she would still get furious if I brought it up. After 3+ years, I called it quits. Just giving you some sound advice.

I've been there, there's a chance she doesn't really love you the same way. My experience with that was that she was falling out of feelings and it ended up ending. I'd leave before you're hurt any more

sounds like she's getting it elsewhere .....

Sexual compatibility is almost as important as communication, and communication is THE most important thing in a relationship. If you’re too afraid to talk about something making you unhappy in a relationship, there’s a big issue there, and you need to get over that fear and/or move on.

she gets angry at you for asking? was there something in her past she doesn't want reminding of? It doesn't sound like it is a healthy relationship based just on this

Why are you still dating her? If you’re afraid of her temper that much that’s a major problem

blondie45 21

Maybe you’re really crap in bed?