By JustTheWife - 12/05/2016 17:24 - Denmark

Today, my husband and I got into a huge fight about his ex-fiancée, after I found out he's been confessing his love to her behind my back. Our fight ended with him yelling that yes, she's the love of his life, "But I still married you, didn't I?" FML
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wrongmove 11

I think you need a divorce lawyer. You shouldn't be anyone's second choice.

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Indianboy9321 25

But he WOULD have married HER...? Not really sure how there's a fight, because I don't know what his argument is other than his already invalid point..

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Comments

KarmicJ 3

If someone is hiding something from you it's because they know it's wrong but want to do it anyway. He made a conscious decision to tell another woman he loves her.

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waleedma 18

I don't understand his point if view!

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xMaeLA 24

Because it doesn't make sense. Lol don't try to understand something that can't be understood. Her husband is, and please excuse my French, a ******* moron.

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Danne696 14

He might be very practical. For instance if the love of his life is economically unstable, has sick relatives to care for etc. Then he might think that OP is a better choice of wife if OP doesn't have any such problems. I, personally, don't think that would be a good reason to get married, but it might be a motivation for him.

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mightyfp 1

I never understood calling two people lovebirds since birds are incapable of growing increasingly resentful of each other's minor flaws...

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Annika14 16

I would get a freaking divorce asap! He sounds like a dick..

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Kwadzzer117 5

No you would not. You would cry ,cry and cry then try to work things out. If whoever you're with did this you would resolve it. As far as I am concerned he confessed love to his ex and has not... made love. There is still time to fix it. Go counselling he's still loves very much he's just torn this needs to be discussed he also needs to figure himself out.

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breedles 28

I'm not understanding how he felt his "but I still married you" comment was a good idea?

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vmm 11

Sometimes people want the ideal version of someone created in their heads and they tend to focus on only the good memories. And the ex-fiancé maybe likes the attention. But imho you can't fix people by pointing these things out. So maybe it'll be a life lesson that he'll understand after you divorce him. You deserve a happily committed partner in marriage. Not someone who begrudgingly stays married to you. If you work it out, please be careful. Don't let the relationship mess with your self-esteem.

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meghanclean 17

What a horrible thing to say. Time for a lawyer.

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