By MissyPants - 15/08/2015 08:22 - United States - Lebec
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I am the op of this FML and I hope it shows that but let me explain this a little further. My soon to be ex husband has been cheating on me for the last few months of my pregnancy. I noticed the changes in him but I hoped it was just nerves over the baby. I actually caught him about three weeks before I went into labor and threw him out. I had planned on letting him be there when I gave birth to our baby girl but he didn't answer my calls. My mother was with me so I wasn't alone but I really thought he would want to see the birth of his first child. I have filed for divorce and have no problem being a single parent. He makes me physically ill at the moment but I have tried to be civil for our babies sake. I want him to be in her life because she deserves a dad but I can't force him to be one. I'm thrilled to be a mom no matter the circumstances and me and my daughter will be ok no matter what. Thank you all for the funny, sweet, and even mean comments; they make my day a little better.
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To the people saying that the father of the child doesn't deserve to lose any of his property or that the mother will be driving a Porsche... ROTFLMAO! I'm a single mother and I can tell you I drive a 21 year old car that is notoriously unreliable. I also have a half tooth that I can't afford to get fixed if my daughter is to be able to do the after school activities that she has chosen for herself. My experience is that 95% of the time the proceeds of a property settlement and child support are truly used to give a child or children of a broken relationship a sense of security and endeavour to make their life/lives as happy as possible.
I don't understand why people have clicked "You deserved it"?
It sometimes happens accidentally
Sounds like what happened with my ex. What did I do? Made sure I had enough evidence to ruin him. So I also moved halfway across the country with my daughter and he has no choice but to pay child support for a kid he doesn't know about
Divorce him, his mistress is obviously more imporatant to him than your child. Congrats on the baby!
I wish you and your baby well OP.
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Take every penny that bastard has. Be relentless and brutal. Hire a good attorney, win some alimony, and leave him in the rear view mirror.
Confused as to why this doesn't say 'about to be ex husband'