don't let your mother's childish prejudice against grandma hinder you. your grandma bought you a plane ticket and seems to love you lots, so go for it! on a side note, tell your mum not to involve you in her rivalry with grandma and advise her to settle it like a mature adult.

Classic Thanksgiving.

You're mom sounds like a bitch

:( that's horrible

Wooooww. Typical. You should just tell her how wrong that that is to do.

If I were you, I would remind her that one day she might be the grandmother in a situation like this and ask if she would want you to act the way she is acting now.

Don't let your mom do that to you. That's childish. Especially if you don't have the same feelings towards your grandmother as she does.

Well if she doesn't like her, that's her problem and it's unfair of her to interfere with you having a relationship with your grandmother because of how she feels.

That would happen in my family

Sounds like the kind of drama that goes on in my wife's family. Her dad & stepmom drove over 2000 miles to visit us (her mom thought we should ignore them to spend time with her, even though she sees us every other day & weekends the rest of the year & lives 4 blocks away)