Good for you for divorcing an abusive asshole. Sorry OP. ( I'd suggest maybe considering therapy too, since it sounds like you possibly grew up in a hoard with a messed up mom?)

Your mother is a hypoticritical bitch who needs to be slapped in the face, then say "God said that's for your past two marriages". You're right on getting a divorce from an abusive man. She just she needs o get a big bowl of Shutthefuckup

With a mother like that, it's better to cut contact with her. No mother in her right mind would try to force their child to stay in an abusive relationship, specially when they themselves have left other relationships for frivolous reasons.

Ignore her, well done OP on getting out of an abusive relationship. Some people never leave them

If you happened to be old enough to get married then you happened to be old enough to live your life for yourself not your mom's approval. Do what you need to be safe and happy not what you think will make mom happy

I hope you mean ex-mother.

Hypocrite = advice invalid.

Good on getting away from your ex husband. No one deserves that. As for your mom, I'd distance yourself, she sounds like a real screw up and probably isn't worth your time

How does someone deserve this??

Wow what a hypocrite. Using your mom's logic your mom would probably be going to hell.