By chumpslolo - 25/07/2013 10:55 - United States - Vandalia

Today, my sister backed out of my wedding because it was becoming too much about me. After I begged her to reconsider, I had no choice but to pick a new bridesmaid. When my new bridesmaid posted on Facebook how excited she was, my sister commented, "See, you made HER feel special." FML
I agree, your life sucks 55 604
You deserved it 3 999

Same thing different taste

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feldco1 17

Wow what a drama queen. It's YOUR day OP so forget her and congrats!

She doesn't deserve to be in the wedding then, OP.

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Umm...but isn't this wedding YOU'RE wedding?! This IS about you! As long as you aren't bridezilla, then she shouldn't have a problem. I'm guessing she feels like she's losing you.

OP, did you mean maid of honor instead of bridesmaid or did you say bridesmaid because you only have one chosen and there for they would also be the maid of honor? Either way, your sister is a bitch for doing that to you. Congratulations on dodging her mess and selecting someone else less selfish to do the roll for you.

A bridesmaid and a maid of honor are two distinct and separate roles. My sister was a bridesmaid at my wedding, along with two other close friends, and another close friend fulfilled the role of maid of honor.

I don't think my comment was read or understood clearly from how I put it. I am aware that those are two different roles in a wedding. In my comment I was asking the OP if she meant maid of honor instead of bridesmaid because her sister made such a deal over a smaller role in comparison between the two roles (despite the fact she backed out initially). It also brought forth my second question out of curiosity if OP was possibly combining both roles in to one role if she had only asked one person to do this for her which I have seen happen at one of my cousins wedding.

It sounds like your sister has some issues. Congrats OP and DO NOT let her ruin YOUR wedding. Enjoy your day with none of her drama. Since it appears your friend is honored to be asked, I believe she will happily make it all about you!

An attention ***** like that doesn't deserve to be in the bridal party anyway. BTW, you might want to make sure your officiant isn't going to include the "If anyone here objects..." part of the ceremony, if she's going to be a guest.

thatgirlincali 13

One question...Are you the younger sister?

WishForTheWorld 9

Isn't it suppose to be about you?

Your sis is mad because it isn't her wedding. I mean wtf? It's YOUR wedding, it should be one of the few occasions in your life where everything is about you!

BiaBauer 29

Sorry OP, but your sis is a stupid bitch.

danidanidani 10

Be glad she's not your bridesmaid anymore she sounds a little crazy